And, there in lies the key. Keep that in mind at ALL TIMES!! She thinks a lot less about it than you do, especially since she is feeling better now.SHe adjusts far better than I re her.
Wishing her all the best on her eye follow up! And, for you as well with all of the other 'stuff' going on. 'Crap' (or, 'stuff', for lack of better words) does seem to come in droves.