Hi. I am new to this site but appreciate the support, having three cats I have a 12 year old Maine Coone, with Chrohn's disease; a 7 year old Siamese/Tabby and a 10 month old black tabby. The younges, Max, is my problem at the moment. He is a very different sort, very demanding and emotional. He plays fetch like a maniac - wants to play all the time. He has taken over as the dominant male in this house since his arrival. I found this strange that a newcomer, and a kitten at that, would be able to assume this position but he has the other two, Badger is the seven year old Siamese/Tabby and Chicklette, my Maine Coone under his control. Thanks for being there. Hope I can be of help to some of you as well.