Ive got a great girlfriend with two cats.
One is a female who Ive become great friends with by bringing by fancy feats (She only feeds kibble and wont feed em the good stuff even when they push the plate and meow) I play with her, and all great stuff. Shes a hoot.
The other one though, well, weve been dating since May, and weve tried everything. Ignoring him for over 3 months. If he hides under the table in the living room, holding up the table cloth with a weight and make him deal with us sitting there.
We have no idea what left to do. My gf hates that he cowers and is frightened of him. My feelings are hurt because he associates me with fear.
Ive plopped fancy feast on a plate, given it to him under the table and left him alone.
Ive put treats there.
Weve exhausted everything. Weve even tried the faliway plug in stress reliever but hes the same.
Shes even tried the oral drops. No change.
Help guys, I've seen videos of them playing. They are so cute together, and hes a doll.
Were gonna take him to the vet and see if Prozac is the answer and what his advice, but you all seem quite intelligent so I decided to prod your thoughts.
All help is apreciated thanks.
BTW,
she always wants to know how to keep him from meowing nad scratching at her bed room door. Hes 1.5 almost 2.
Shes thinking of applying aluminum foil to the door and area but that would be a waste of money after a while.
Thanks again.
One is a female who Ive become great friends with by bringing by fancy feats (She only feeds kibble and wont feed em the good stuff even when they push the plate and meow) I play with her, and all great stuff. Shes a hoot.
The other one though, well, weve been dating since May, and weve tried everything. Ignoring him for over 3 months. If he hides under the table in the living room, holding up the table cloth with a weight and make him deal with us sitting there.
We have no idea what left to do. My gf hates that he cowers and is frightened of him. My feelings are hurt because he associates me with fear.
Ive plopped fancy feast on a plate, given it to him under the table and left him alone.
Ive put treats there.
Weve exhausted everything. Weve even tried the faliway plug in stress reliever but hes the same.
Shes even tried the oral drops. No change.
Help guys, I've seen videos of them playing. They are so cute together, and hes a doll.
Were gonna take him to the vet and see if Prozac is the answer and what his advice, but you all seem quite intelligent so I decided to prod your thoughts.
All help is apreciated thanks.
BTW,
she always wants to know how to keep him from meowing nad scratching at her bed room door. Hes 1.5 almost 2.
Shes thinking of applying aluminum foil to the door and area but that would be a waste of money after a while.
Thanks again.