I'm still not sure if this is the right place to be posting this, but here it goes.
I have an almost three year old daughter (very hyper, determined, and doesn't always listen when you tell her "NO"). We got Gidget just last week (only issue we've had so far is the litter box).
My daughter adores the kitten and she likes to pick her up and carry her or "squeeze" her at times. Now she's been around dogs and one other cat since birth, but they're all older and bigger. She's never been around another animal this small and I'm worried she might hurt her.
She has picked up and carried around her Grandmother's Manx Bobby who is obviously older and much bigger than Gidget (and he would let her do it too to our amazement). My biggest concern is her habbit of picking up the kitten by the neck. Now I NEVER leave both alone in a room together, but once she gets a grip it's sometimes hard to get her to let go. I don't know what to do. I've tried showing her the proper way to hold and pet the kitten, but she'll either just ignore you or throw a tantrum.
They do have their moments. With all that Fiona has done so far Gidget has no fear of her. And they have played nicely together. I just don't know what steps I should take when she decides to grab and/or pick her up.
I'm sorry this is quite long, but I wanted to make sure I left nothing out.
Another thing I should note is that my daughter has some developmental issues where she sees two therapists about every week (one for speech and the other for physical development). I haven't had a chance to talk to either of them about all this just yet.
I have an almost three year old daughter (very hyper, determined, and doesn't always listen when you tell her "NO"). We got Gidget just last week (only issue we've had so far is the litter box).
My daughter adores the kitten and she likes to pick her up and carry her or "squeeze" her at times. Now she's been around dogs and one other cat since birth, but they're all older and bigger. She's never been around another animal this small and I'm worried she might hurt her.
She has picked up and carried around her Grandmother's Manx Bobby who is obviously older and much bigger than Gidget (and he would let her do it too to our amazement). My biggest concern is her habbit of picking up the kitten by the neck. Now I NEVER leave both alone in a room together, but once she gets a grip it's sometimes hard to get her to let go. I don't know what to do. I've tried showing her the proper way to hold and pet the kitten, but she'll either just ignore you or throw a tantrum.
They do have their moments. With all that Fiona has done so far Gidget has no fear of her. And they have played nicely together. I just don't know what steps I should take when she decides to grab and/or pick her up.
I'm sorry this is quite long, but I wanted to make sure I left nothing out.
Another thing I should note is that my daughter has some developmental issues where she sees two therapists about every week (one for speech and the other for physical development). I haven't had a chance to talk to either of them about all this just yet.