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Many people offered me great advice on introducing our two cats. I am particularly grateful tp Elphaba09 and A ArtNJ
I have just put up a sturdy cat gate between the two in our flat. We have had it in place for 2 days. That should help.
We are trying to get Fleaso into good behaviour, but this is proving tricky. When she is separated from Bob, and he gets near the cat gate or window, where they are almost nose to nose, she hisses and, if he hangs around, retreats. She is (currently) always the aggressor. But she is curious enough to come close in the first place. Trying to distract her with clicking and offering treats doesnt seem to work. She seems very concentrated on self-preservation.
We have had them near each other on the ground, while monitoring them. This week, when he got very close, she ran off and hid - leaving a trail of urine (she was very frightened).
She seems to be comfortable on the top of the cat tower, or my sitting on my shoulder, when Bob is on the ground.
We had a Felway plug that seemed to be working, but has limited positive effects when Bob is around. So she is a mixture of fortitude (30%) and nervousness (70%).
I need to try the collar with the bell, to put on Bob when he is around. I would say they are used to each others scent.
My wife and I both have the time to be in the room with them to monitor their behaviour. But our concern is whether she will ever allow him to be close enough to acknowledge he is not a threat.
Any thoughts?
Many thanks
Many people offered me great advice on introducing our two cats. I am particularly grateful tp Elphaba09 and A ArtNJ
I have just put up a sturdy cat gate between the two in our flat. We have had it in place for 2 days. That should help.
We are trying to get Fleaso into good behaviour, but this is proving tricky. When she is separated from Bob, and he gets near the cat gate or window, where they are almost nose to nose, she hisses and, if he hangs around, retreats. She is (currently) always the aggressor. But she is curious enough to come close in the first place. Trying to distract her with clicking and offering treats doesnt seem to work. She seems very concentrated on self-preservation.
We have had them near each other on the ground, while monitoring them. This week, when he got very close, she ran off and hid - leaving a trail of urine (she was very frightened).
She seems to be comfortable on the top of the cat tower, or my sitting on my shoulder, when Bob is on the ground.
We had a Felway plug that seemed to be working, but has limited positive effects when Bob is around. So she is a mixture of fortitude (30%) and nervousness (70%).
I need to try the collar with the bell, to put on Bob when he is around. I would say they are used to each others scent.
My wife and I both have the time to be in the room with them to monitor their behaviour. But our concern is whether she will ever allow him to be close enough to acknowledge he is not a threat.
Any thoughts?
Many thanks