Hello and good morning all,
We are now five months in to the introduction of Mickey to Pesto, our resident cat, and it has been a roller-coaster ride. I am looking for any kind of advice or encouragement because I am not really sure where we are now!
After 2 1/2 months of slow intro, we have had Mickey out with Pesto 24/7 since the end of May with a mix of continued chasing of Pesto by Mickey. the chases have dropped a bit in frequency, but intensity can still be concerning:
1. He chases Pesto up into his tree almost every morning, keeping Pesto from his food. (Mickey doesn't want the food, he just wants to chase Pesto up the tree to keep him away from us)
2. We can't pet Pesto without Mickey turning on Pesto and chasing/biting him.
3. When we try to play with Mickey to give Pesto time off, Pesto wants to see whats going on, comes over, and eventually a chase again ensues.
Off and on we have seen encouraging signs; mutual grooming, playing with no attacking, etc.. but that has completely stopped over the last couple of weeks.
Background: Both are neutered males. Pesto (resident) is 9 years old and Mickey is 1 year old.
I have tried to get Mickey harness trained to provide more of an outlet for his energy, but now he has firmly decided he has no interest in going outside!
Mickey has also become very attached to me, less so to my husband who is gone for most of the day. My husband is increasingly upset for Pesto as he feels this is more Pesto's home and he is getting the shaft here. I feel if Mickey doesn't start being nicer to Pesto, Mickey may have to go.
Mickey is still on Amytriptiline for his behavior/anxiety, now in a compounded formula applied to ears.
Any thoughts, suggestions, insight would be greatly appreciated!
Connie
We are now five months in to the introduction of Mickey to Pesto, our resident cat, and it has been a roller-coaster ride. I am looking for any kind of advice or encouragement because I am not really sure where we are now!
After 2 1/2 months of slow intro, we have had Mickey out with Pesto 24/7 since the end of May with a mix of continued chasing of Pesto by Mickey. the chases have dropped a bit in frequency, but intensity can still be concerning:
1. He chases Pesto up into his tree almost every morning, keeping Pesto from his food. (Mickey doesn't want the food, he just wants to chase Pesto up the tree to keep him away from us)
2. We can't pet Pesto without Mickey turning on Pesto and chasing/biting him.
3. When we try to play with Mickey to give Pesto time off, Pesto wants to see whats going on, comes over, and eventually a chase again ensues.
Off and on we have seen encouraging signs; mutual grooming, playing with no attacking, etc.. but that has completely stopped over the last couple of weeks.
Background: Both are neutered males. Pesto (resident) is 9 years old and Mickey is 1 year old.
I have tried to get Mickey harness trained to provide more of an outlet for his energy, but now he has firmly decided he has no interest in going outside!
Mickey has also become very attached to me, less so to my husband who is gone for most of the day. My husband is increasingly upset for Pesto as he feels this is more Pesto's home and he is getting the shaft here. I feel if Mickey doesn't start being nicer to Pesto, Mickey may have to go.
Mickey is still on Amytriptiline for his behavior/anxiety, now in a compounded formula applied to ears.
Any thoughts, suggestions, insight would be greatly appreciated!
Connie