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Hi everyone -
I have a 2-year-old Tortie girl (Maisie), whom I've had since she was 6 weeks, and a few months ago I also adopted a tuxedo boy (Cecco), who is about 5 years old. Both are spayed/neutered.
Cecco has a pretty laid-back personality but is also a confident/alpha kitty. Maisie is timid and took a while to warm up to her new brother. We introduced slowly, and they were getting used to each other. Maisie's hissing decreased, she began sleeping near him on the bed, even allowing some limited allo-grooming. We thought things were great! They were even getting comfortable enough to play a bit.
That's when things changed. Cecco began playing roughly with Maisie - tackling, bowling her over, etc. Maisie hisses and growls when he does this, but it never deters him. I have to shoo him away. As much as she complains, Maisie will often jump right up from a defensive position and go pick another "fight" with Cecco, and she's even started tackling him the way he tackles her! (We accuse her of writing checks that her a$$ can't cash.) But she's still hissing and fussing when he does it, so I can't imagine she enjoys this sort of play.
Maisie doesn't seem to exhibit fear of Cecco in non-play situations - she'll sleep a few inches away from him, for example. But I don't know what to make of this behavior. I'm afraid it's going to hurt their relationship in the long run, but it's been difficult to stop. I did try a Feliway-type diffuser in the room where they play; no effect.
Any advice??
thanks!
Amanda
I have a 2-year-old Tortie girl (Maisie), whom I've had since she was 6 weeks, and a few months ago I also adopted a tuxedo boy (Cecco), who is about 5 years old. Both are spayed/neutered.
Cecco has a pretty laid-back personality but is also a confident/alpha kitty. Maisie is timid and took a while to warm up to her new brother. We introduced slowly, and they were getting used to each other. Maisie's hissing decreased, she began sleeping near him on the bed, even allowing some limited allo-grooming. We thought things were great! They were even getting comfortable enough to play a bit.
That's when things changed. Cecco began playing roughly with Maisie - tackling, bowling her over, etc. Maisie hisses and growls when he does this, but it never deters him. I have to shoo him away. As much as she complains, Maisie will often jump right up from a defensive position and go pick another "fight" with Cecco, and she's even started tackling him the way he tackles her! (We accuse her of writing checks that her a$$ can't cash.) But she's still hissing and fussing when he does it, so I can't imagine she enjoys this sort of play.
Maisie doesn't seem to exhibit fear of Cecco in non-play situations - she'll sleep a few inches away from him, for example. But I don't know what to make of this behavior. I'm afraid it's going to hurt their relationship in the long run, but it's been difficult to stop. I did try a Feliway-type diffuser in the room where they play; no effect.
Any advice??
thanks!
Amanda