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When I was four years old, my grandparents had a cat they were taking care of who had wandered on to their property one day. He lived outside and despite his being a stray, he was one of the sweetest and friendliest cats in the world. However, he often got into fights with and started beating up my grandparents cat, Shadow. One Christmas they asked if we wanted him. That day we took him home and he became our cat.
At first, Tiger was unsure of us. He was friendly as usual, but it still felt like if he wanted to he would run away. A year later I went in for a major surgery and when I came home I had to sleep in the living room. I usually slept in a room with my sister, so I was unaccustomed to sleeping in a room without another person. The first night back home, he snuggled up to me on the couch and every night after he did the same.
It wasn't until I was twelve that he actually became more than just a family cat. I started feeding him in my room and keeping his litterbox in my closet. As a result he began spending the night in my room. Ever since then he was my cat. He followed me around, always wanted to snuggle, and I could pick him up and pet him whenever I wanted. He was my baby. Him and I were very close and eventually, when I developed some severed depression and a panic disorder aided by (at the time) undiagnosed ADHD, he became a support for me. Whenever I would panic or cry he would just come up and cuddle. Even when I was anxious, he wouldn't freak out or run away when I tried to pick him up.
Due to my parents being divorced, I only had Tiger at my mom's house. My therapist saw what he did for me and how much he helped and suggested that we get a cat for at my dad's house. At the time, the thought of a new pet was thrilling and I became consumed by it. I din't ignore Tiger, but as he got old and sick I was not the best owner for him.
After I got Percy, my new kitten, Tiger was definitely jealous. He had gone deaf and his eyesight was failing and Percy kept harassing him whenever she was visiting. I still tried to take care of him but I was distracted. Unfortunately, the week after I brought Percy over to my mom's for the first time, Tiger disappeared. I was heartbroken. I needed him. He took care of me and through taking care of him, I was able to keep myself alive. I waited for two months, desperately hoping that he would come back.
He never did and ever since then I have just been a mess. I feel guilty and sad and the lack of closure only makes it worse. I am unsure of what to do now. I don't know where he went, what happened to him, and my logical brain tells me he is dead.
I don't really have a purpose for this, I am just trying to work through being without the one creature that could help me through anything and that kept me alive.
At first, Tiger was unsure of us. He was friendly as usual, but it still felt like if he wanted to he would run away. A year later I went in for a major surgery and when I came home I had to sleep in the living room. I usually slept in a room with my sister, so I was unaccustomed to sleeping in a room without another person. The first night back home, he snuggled up to me on the couch and every night after he did the same.
It wasn't until I was twelve that he actually became more than just a family cat. I started feeding him in my room and keeping his litterbox in my closet. As a result he began spending the night in my room. Ever since then he was my cat. He followed me around, always wanted to snuggle, and I could pick him up and pet him whenever I wanted. He was my baby. Him and I were very close and eventually, when I developed some severed depression and a panic disorder aided by (at the time) undiagnosed ADHD, he became a support for me. Whenever I would panic or cry he would just come up and cuddle. Even when I was anxious, he wouldn't freak out or run away when I tried to pick him up.
Due to my parents being divorced, I only had Tiger at my mom's house. My therapist saw what he did for me and how much he helped and suggested that we get a cat for at my dad's house. At the time, the thought of a new pet was thrilling and I became consumed by it. I din't ignore Tiger, but as he got old and sick I was not the best owner for him.
After I got Percy, my new kitten, Tiger was definitely jealous. He had gone deaf and his eyesight was failing and Percy kept harassing him whenever she was visiting. I still tried to take care of him but I was distracted. Unfortunately, the week after I brought Percy over to my mom's for the first time, Tiger disappeared. I was heartbroken. I needed him. He took care of me and through taking care of him, I was able to keep myself alive. I waited for two months, desperately hoping that he would come back.
He never did and ever since then I have just been a mess. I feel guilty and sad and the lack of closure only makes it worse. I am unsure of what to do now. I don't know where he went, what happened to him, and my logical brain tells me he is dead.
I don't really have a purpose for this, I am just trying to work through being without the one creature that could help me through anything and that kept me alive.