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Hello,
I adopted two 7-month old kittens on March 12th this year - one male and one female. The shelter has a requirement for adopting 2 cats together if they're young. They're not bonded or litter mates. They're not aggressive to one another, but they hardly play with each other. I have bought everything double (litter box, beds etc.) so they don't compete. The issue is, my male cat won't let the female cat eat or play. When we're playing with both together, the male is always grabbing the toy and female gets insecure and stops playing. Similarly while eating, the male will leave his food bowl and start eating from female's bowl. When this happens, female stops eating and looks depressed. I've started hand feeding the female so she can eat, and to boost her confidence. The male will still barge in when I'm feeding the female even when his tummy is full. He ends up overeating. Any ideas how to stop this behavior?
Forgot to mention both are spayed/neutered and vaccinated. I'm using multicat Feliway as well, which helped with male kitten's aggression. But he competes with the baby girl which is out of control.
Thank you!
I adopted two 7-month old kittens on March 12th this year - one male and one female. The shelter has a requirement for adopting 2 cats together if they're young. They're not bonded or litter mates. They're not aggressive to one another, but they hardly play with each other. I have bought everything double (litter box, beds etc.) so they don't compete. The issue is, my male cat won't let the female cat eat or play. When we're playing with both together, the male is always grabbing the toy and female gets insecure and stops playing. Similarly while eating, the male will leave his food bowl and start eating from female's bowl. When this happens, female stops eating and looks depressed. I've started hand feeding the female so she can eat, and to boost her confidence. The male will still barge in when I'm feeding the female even when his tummy is full. He ends up overeating. Any ideas how to stop this behavior?
Forgot to mention both are spayed/neutered and vaccinated. I'm using multicat Feliway as well, which helped with male kitten's aggression. But he competes with the baby girl which is out of control.
Thank you!