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Yup that is exactly the situation, so excuse me if I feel a bit peeved when there are people wanting to defend this dog at all cost. I have zero patience left for the neighbors and anything that has to do with them, or anybody who thinks that dog ownership means letting them do whatever they want at the cost of your neighbor's sense of peace and safety.OK, can we all take a step back and a few deep breaths here? I do think catnap and catladyjan were just trying to understand the situation better and were looking at it from all angles to give you the best advice they could.
catalinacat I'm sorry you are dealing with the dog situation. I know you only gave the neighbor situation as context, but I really feel for you. I had neighbors that went through a quick succession of dogs that were really awful neighbors and really awful dog owners. I never had an issue with dogs prior to them moving in and by the time we moved I had a fear of large dogs. Yes, we moved because of them. I moved seventeen years ago and it took me years and years to get over it.
Can we keep the suggestions focused on how to help the cat and not how to change the neighbor or dog?
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