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About a month ago, my boyfriend and I adopted a 2-year-old cat Ajax from the shelter. We adopted him mostly because of his character – his temporary owner said he was very calm and loved petting and cuddling. He is neutered and healthy according to the vet. In the first week he was just as described. We cuddled pretty much all the time, played a lot with his favourite toys, he got used to our apartment really quickly. The only thing I noticed was that he had these episodes of attacks a few times a day and also, he had stuffed nose and had a little trouble breathing. We took him to the vet, and she gave him medicine for his cold and I also showed her the video of the episode and she said that that’s probably feline hyperesthesia and as long as it’s not too bad we should not worry about it – and it really isn’t that bad, we try to stick to a strict schedule with eating and we try to keep any potential stressors to the minimum and he very rarely has these attacks anymore. His cold is now also healed and his nose is not stuffed anymore.
But in the last two weeks, his behaviour towards me suddenly changed. He is more and more aggressive, and whenever I try to pet him, he bites me. He never does that to my boyfriend, ever. I work from home, so I spend most of the day with him. I feed him and play with him the most. I’ve read a lot about cat aggression, but this doesn’t look anything like that playful aggression – he never bites me while we play. And also it’s not because of petting, because it’s not like I am petting him for 10 minutes and then he bites when he’s had enough. No, he attacks me sometimes when I only approach him, or when I try to pet him. I would understand it if he never liked petting, but I could do it for hours and he used to love it, and now all of a sudden he started attacking me. I don’t remember doing anything to cause this behaviour – never yelled at him, or hit him (obviously), or anything like that. I try saying “NO” every time he bites me, and then I walk away. But it doesn’t seem to work, since we’re not playing and he obviously doesn’t care if I walk away. And it’s also not like I am constantly trying to pet him or anything. We have a few play sessions, and then I leave him alone to sleep. I also thought it might be a health thing, but then again, he never bites or acts like that towards my boyfriend.
I know we don’t have him for a very long time, but I love him to death and I just want to handle this problem before it gets out of control. I'm really running out of ideas here, what else could I try to eliminate this behaviour? Getting another cat is not really an option, since he didn't really like the company of other cats in the shelter and he preferred to be alone, so I think this would only cause more chaos. I feel like he suddenly just started to hate me and I'm really getting desperate here. I would appreciate any thoughts on this matter.
About a month ago, my boyfriend and I adopted a 2-year-old cat Ajax from the shelter. We adopted him mostly because of his character – his temporary owner said he was very calm and loved petting and cuddling. He is neutered and healthy according to the vet. In the first week he was just as described. We cuddled pretty much all the time, played a lot with his favourite toys, he got used to our apartment really quickly. The only thing I noticed was that he had these episodes of attacks a few times a day and also, he had stuffed nose and had a little trouble breathing. We took him to the vet, and she gave him medicine for his cold and I also showed her the video of the episode and she said that that’s probably feline hyperesthesia and as long as it’s not too bad we should not worry about it – and it really isn’t that bad, we try to stick to a strict schedule with eating and we try to keep any potential stressors to the minimum and he very rarely has these attacks anymore. His cold is now also healed and his nose is not stuffed anymore.
But in the last two weeks, his behaviour towards me suddenly changed. He is more and more aggressive, and whenever I try to pet him, he bites me. He never does that to my boyfriend, ever. I work from home, so I spend most of the day with him. I feed him and play with him the most. I’ve read a lot about cat aggression, but this doesn’t look anything like that playful aggression – he never bites me while we play. And also it’s not because of petting, because it’s not like I am petting him for 10 minutes and then he bites when he’s had enough. No, he attacks me sometimes when I only approach him, or when I try to pet him. I would understand it if he never liked petting, but I could do it for hours and he used to love it, and now all of a sudden he started attacking me. I don’t remember doing anything to cause this behaviour – never yelled at him, or hit him (obviously), or anything like that. I try saying “NO” every time he bites me, and then I walk away. But it doesn’t seem to work, since we’re not playing and he obviously doesn’t care if I walk away. And it’s also not like I am constantly trying to pet him or anything. We have a few play sessions, and then I leave him alone to sleep. I also thought it might be a health thing, but then again, he never bites or acts like that towards my boyfriend.
I know we don’t have him for a very long time, but I love him to death and I just want to handle this problem before it gets out of control. I'm really running out of ideas here, what else could I try to eliminate this behaviour? Getting another cat is not really an option, since he didn't really like the company of other cats in the shelter and he preferred to be alone, so I think this would only cause more chaos. I feel like he suddenly just started to hate me and I'm really getting desperate here. I would appreciate any thoughts on this matter.