I'm not sure if this is the right forum, but I just want to rant a bit. The other day, I asked two girls/ladies if they liked cats and their immediate response, both of them, was "I'm allergic." I get that response from people all the time! Also, right now I'm living in China and finding someone to watch my cats when I return to America for breaks is challenging, to say the least. Again, a common response is "I'm allergic." (I'm talking about native English speakers here, Americans, British, Australian, etc.)
I know I shouldn't let it get to me, but it annoys me to no end! I want to be like "... And?"
I'm super allergic to cats! I'm on the max amount of allergy medicine you can get, other than getting allergy shots. And I was getting those twice a week when I was in the US. I only stopped because I don't trust Chinese medicine (lots of counterfeits and not even sure if they do allergy shots here!) In addition to oral medication, nasal sprays and an inhaler, I also have to take migraine medication because of all the headaches I get from sinus pressure! And yet - I have 3 cats!
I feel like, you wouldn't get rid of your kid just because he brought too many colds home from preschool, so why would you get rid of your cat?
So when I ask people if they like cats and they immediately answer "I'm allergic", it just rubs me the wrong way! What does that have to do with anything?? I asked you if you LIKED cats, not if you are allergic to them! Do people think this is a polite way to get out of saying they don't like them?
Like I said, I know I shouldn't let it get to me. If I didn't like cats, I wouldn't want to put up with all the allergy related issues involved in having them. But I just wish people would say what they mean. It ticks me off SO much for them to act like being allergic answers everything, like obviously no one who's allergic can like cats and since I have cats, I must not really be allergic to them. They really do dismiss my allergies, as if their allergies are so much worse.
Does this bother anyone else or am I just crazy?
I know I shouldn't let it get to me, but it annoys me to no end! I want to be like "... And?"
I'm super allergic to cats! I'm on the max amount of allergy medicine you can get, other than getting allergy shots. And I was getting those twice a week when I was in the US. I only stopped because I don't trust Chinese medicine (lots of counterfeits and not even sure if they do allergy shots here!) In addition to oral medication, nasal sprays and an inhaler, I also have to take migraine medication because of all the headaches I get from sinus pressure! And yet - I have 3 cats!
I feel like, you wouldn't get rid of your kid just because he brought too many colds home from preschool, so why would you get rid of your cat?
So when I ask people if they like cats and they immediately answer "I'm allergic", it just rubs me the wrong way! What does that have to do with anything?? I asked you if you LIKED cats, not if you are allergic to them! Do people think this is a polite way to get out of saying they don't like them?
Like I said, I know I shouldn't let it get to me. If I didn't like cats, I wouldn't want to put up with all the allergy related issues involved in having them. But I just wish people would say what they mean. It ticks me off SO much for them to act like being allergic answers everything, like obviously no one who's allergic can like cats and since I have cats, I must not really be allergic to them. They really do dismiss my allergies, as if their allergies are so much worse.
Does this bother anyone else or am I just crazy?