just wondering how people cope with this? My husband of 7 years left me on new year's day, and has decided it wont work. But, deep down in me, I know it can. Last night he was over to fix something, he said he missed my companionship, so to me, it shows something is left. I know when someone files, the other can ask for mediation from the courts to see if it can be saved. Did anyone do this and did it work. Right now all I want is support.. I dont want lectures or anything, because I am having an awful time