Side note: the "behavior" in this post is likely more dependent on my behavior as opposed to the cats. There is some work to be done with the cats, but I think much of it is on me. I'll try to keep this kind of short since I don't want to turn this into a therapy session.
I suffer from Bi-Polar Depression, Type II. I have been on medication now for a few years for the depression, but was only officially diagnosed with the bi-polar disorder last year. Meds have been helping, but lately I feel like they're needing to be adjusted. My motivation is slipping and I am unable to concentrate or put the effort in to things that I want to. Thankfully, I have an appointment with my psychiatrist in April.
Because of this, I am finding it harder to make myself spend time wearing Calvin out. He is still spraying occasionally, and still torments Bowie. It is not as bad as it could be, but I know I could be making it better. Anyone with depression or bi-polar will understand how tough it is to do something. I barely take care of myself some days, and if I didn't have my job, I would probably rarely leave my house and certainly interact with people as little as possible.
Bowie and Sable are older, and much more laid back now. Calvin, being so young at 9 months, is still a bit of a hellion. He does have quiet moments, but there are days that when I do play with him that I just cannot wear him out enough. We have feather wands, laser pointers, Jackson Galaxy ground wand, etc.
I'm just starting to think that I made a mistake bringing him home - that his energy level is not a good fit right now when I can barely handle life in other aspects. The other two tolerate him as much as they can, but poor Bowie gets chased and stalked and just tormented. He pees outside the box sometimes when Calvin chases him after he's gone in the litter box. I started making shelves on the wall over the couch for Bowie to give him a place to escape to, and hung one but it is too high. Since then, my condition has been keeping me from finishing the project.
I just get so frustrated with myself and seeing how everyone needs more that I'm not giving them. It makes me wonder if I should never have brought Calvin home... Constantly second guessing myself and overthinking is kind of par for the course with me these days and I just need some advice...
I suffer from Bi-Polar Depression, Type II. I have been on medication now for a few years for the depression, but was only officially diagnosed with the bi-polar disorder last year. Meds have been helping, but lately I feel like they're needing to be adjusted. My motivation is slipping and I am unable to concentrate or put the effort in to things that I want to. Thankfully, I have an appointment with my psychiatrist in April.
Because of this, I am finding it harder to make myself spend time wearing Calvin out. He is still spraying occasionally, and still torments Bowie. It is not as bad as it could be, but I know I could be making it better. Anyone with depression or bi-polar will understand how tough it is to do something. I barely take care of myself some days, and if I didn't have my job, I would probably rarely leave my house and certainly interact with people as little as possible.
Bowie and Sable are older, and much more laid back now. Calvin, being so young at 9 months, is still a bit of a hellion. He does have quiet moments, but there are days that when I do play with him that I just cannot wear him out enough. We have feather wands, laser pointers, Jackson Galaxy ground wand, etc.
I'm just starting to think that I made a mistake bringing him home - that his energy level is not a good fit right now when I can barely handle life in other aspects. The other two tolerate him as much as they can, but poor Bowie gets chased and stalked and just tormented. He pees outside the box sometimes when Calvin chases him after he's gone in the litter box. I started making shelves on the wall over the couch for Bowie to give him a place to escape to, and hung one but it is too high. Since then, my condition has been keeping me from finishing the project.
I just get so frustrated with myself and seeing how everyone needs more that I'm not giving them. It makes me wonder if I should never have brought Calvin home... Constantly second guessing myself and overthinking is kind of par for the course with me these days and I just need some advice...