Hi guys,
I dont know how many times I've posted questions now about issues with my Siamese girl, Mushroom. This is my last attempt, I'm now basically at a roadblock.
Just to refresh, Mush is a 2.5yr old desexed female, I have had her for 12 months. She is an indoor cat.
It has pretty much been a battle for the last year, for my partner and I. She is exctremely vocal, it is not Siamese chatter, it is like a scream and my Partner has now developed anxiety from the stress of being at home. He has been to the Dr 3 times in the last 2 months from chest pains, and the Dr has now said, 'that's it you need to sort out the cat issues, you can't live like this' so he is considering moving out until I work out what to do with Mushroom and the Dr has also recommended councelling for us.
I have used Feliway, I have plenty of toys, scratcher cat tunnel etc. She is currently on Clomicalm which I give her 1/4 tablet every 12 hrs. It has not improved her, but her meow is now deeper which is louder.
None if it makes her calm.
She is a well behaved cat, honestly I think she is. It's just the screaming she does, if I...
wake up, walk past her, get home from work, walk around the unit, getting ready for work, getting dressed, anything we do she Meows at.
I believe she loves us and is clingy whereas my partner sees it as her frustrated and does not see it as love.
The vet says she is very co dependant and adhd. I have spoken to him and he has no other suggestions apart from spray her with a water bottle all the time. No other meds are likely to work. Having another cat is not an option.
Everytime I talk about having to rehome her makes me cry. She gets sick if I go away for a weekend, I can't imagine how she would be in a new house.
Some friends have suggested putting her to sleep would be more humane for her, as they can imagine how painful rehoming would be for her.
I love her, and I love my partner and I am so confused and upset.
I dont know how many times I've posted questions now about issues with my Siamese girl, Mushroom. This is my last attempt, I'm now basically at a roadblock.
Just to refresh, Mush is a 2.5yr old desexed female, I have had her for 12 months. She is an indoor cat.
It has pretty much been a battle for the last year, for my partner and I. She is exctremely vocal, it is not Siamese chatter, it is like a scream and my Partner has now developed anxiety from the stress of being at home. He has been to the Dr 3 times in the last 2 months from chest pains, and the Dr has now said, 'that's it you need to sort out the cat issues, you can't live like this' so he is considering moving out until I work out what to do with Mushroom and the Dr has also recommended councelling for us.
I have used Feliway, I have plenty of toys, scratcher cat tunnel etc. She is currently on Clomicalm which I give her 1/4 tablet every 12 hrs. It has not improved her, but her meow is now deeper which is louder.
None if it makes her calm.
She is a well behaved cat, honestly I think she is. It's just the screaming she does, if I...
wake up, walk past her, get home from work, walk around the unit, getting ready for work, getting dressed, anything we do she Meows at.
I believe she loves us and is clingy whereas my partner sees it as her frustrated and does not see it as love.
The vet says she is very co dependant and adhd. I have spoken to him and he has no other suggestions apart from spray her with a water bottle all the time. No other meds are likely to work. Having another cat is not an option.
Everytime I talk about having to rehome her makes me cry. She gets sick if I go away for a weekend, I can't imagine how she would be in a new house.
Some friends have suggested putting her to sleep would be more humane for her, as they can imagine how painful rehoming would be for her.
I love her, and I love my partner and I am so confused and upset.