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On June 5th of this year, I will be getting married. My fiancé has many job opportunities out of state. He wants to move to a particular state that is about 830 miles away from where we are living now. I currently live with my parents, but when we get married I will of course be moving in with him.
In April, I will have had my inside cat, King, for 10 years. He was born on my front porch, and was brought in as soon as he was old enough. I consider him my older best friend. He is a little contrary sometimes, but that’s just how he is. He’ll be loving pets one second, and as soon as he’s done, he’ll bite you hard to let you know lol. I’m the only one he will jump up on. He loves jumping on me every night before I go to sleep, and then he goes off and will sleep close to me in the chair. I have always been protective of him as he gets scared very easily.
My fiancé and I have two more cats that live at his house. One is about to be 5 months old, and the other is 4 years old. They love to play with each other, but sometimes Smoothie (the kitten) bites Midnight too hard and he gets mad. Smoothie is very, very, very energetic. I think this would really upset King. He is very used to being the only cat, and when I come in from petting an outside cat, he gets super mad and whacks my leg because he can smell them.
I have to make a decision. When I get married and move far away, should I bring King with me? This is a very hard decision. King is very comfortable being in my parents home, and he loves everything about this place. Another factor I have to put in: Smoothie and Midnight have claws, King sadly does not. (I was only 11 when King was born. I had no say in if he got to keep his claws or not. He was ripping our curtains, and climbing up our walls, but I had no problem with it. My mom and dad made the decision, and I tell him how sorry I am about it all the time.) Because of this, King gets mad very easily. His bites do hurt, VERY bad. Many times he brings the blood out on me with deep cuts, just from his teeth. I love him, but he is ruthless when it comes to that.
Would it be possible to bring King with us, move him into a new environment with new cats, and him be okay? He became very ill in September, and I remember worrying that he would not make it. He is doing way better now, but could the change of moving make him sick? Would King and Midnight get along since they are both males?
I am really struggling with this. Any advice is appreciated.
In April, I will have had my inside cat, King, for 10 years. He was born on my front porch, and was brought in as soon as he was old enough. I consider him my older best friend. He is a little contrary sometimes, but that’s just how he is. He’ll be loving pets one second, and as soon as he’s done, he’ll bite you hard to let you know lol. I’m the only one he will jump up on. He loves jumping on me every night before I go to sleep, and then he goes off and will sleep close to me in the chair. I have always been protective of him as he gets scared very easily.
My fiancé and I have two more cats that live at his house. One is about to be 5 months old, and the other is 4 years old. They love to play with each other, but sometimes Smoothie (the kitten) bites Midnight too hard and he gets mad. Smoothie is very, very, very energetic. I think this would really upset King. He is very used to being the only cat, and when I come in from petting an outside cat, he gets super mad and whacks my leg because he can smell them.
I have to make a decision. When I get married and move far away, should I bring King with me? This is a very hard decision. King is very comfortable being in my parents home, and he loves everything about this place. Another factor I have to put in: Smoothie and Midnight have claws, King sadly does not. (I was only 11 when King was born. I had no say in if he got to keep his claws or not. He was ripping our curtains, and climbing up our walls, but I had no problem with it. My mom and dad made the decision, and I tell him how sorry I am about it all the time.) Because of this, King gets mad very easily. His bites do hurt, VERY bad. Many times he brings the blood out on me with deep cuts, just from his teeth. I love him, but he is ruthless when it comes to that.
Would it be possible to bring King with us, move him into a new environment with new cats, and him be okay? He became very ill in September, and I remember worrying that he would not make it. He is doing way better now, but could the change of moving make him sick? Would King and Midnight get along since they are both males?
I am really struggling with this. Any advice is appreciated.
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