- Joined
- Jun 9, 2015
- Messages
- 56
- Purraise
- 4
i have a three year old male and two year old female. I have had both since they were tiny kittens. The second one came in when the first one was a year old. They are neutered and spayed. Through the years, the male has had times where he bites the female. She cries, but won't defend herself. The biting has never resulted in bleeding or observable injury. He also tends to claim desirable spots like soft bedding and my bed even when he isn't on it. She seems to know not to use it. Over the years, they have slept at night on the same bedding (big soft area), but now he wants her off. If I catch him bullying, I give him a verbal and harsh "no" and will put him into time out alone in another room. I feel like he knows I don't like it because he immediately stops if I scold him. It saddens me because she would be his buddy if he would let her. She doesn't irritate him or invade his space and his attacks often come out of no where for no known reason. There has been no routine change, new person in the house, change in food, change in litter, etc. It's like he bullies by biting and she doesn't fight back. I have tried Feliway. Any suggestions for handling this or what might be bringing this on?