Well actually he went and got a car in his name and he picked it out and paid the down payment without discussing it with me, he discussed it with my sister, and now I am to make the payments and once its paid for it goes in my name. I make about $1000 a month after taxes and dad picked out a brand new xterra with a $400 a month payment. Since its his car till paid for I have to ask permission to do just about everything and I cannot afford to move out. At first I was happy about the car butit feels like a big trap. I found out yesterday that my dad is leaving the house to my sister, and she says her and her husband are building me one but I am not sure what that will end up being and I have no idea if she will keep it in my name she already made the comment that it was so I could not get more animals as she feels one cat is enough. I don't know if this will be yet another trap. Sorry this was so long I just feel lost and I don't know what to do.