Hi all, could use some help with a feral/stray cat please. Backstory for context. We adopted 7-month old cat #1 in 2014, and we thought he was lonely so we adopted 2-year old cat #2 in 2015. Cat #1 is a bully so that didn't work out too well. But, they can tolerate each other at least.
Now, we adopted 9-year old cat #3 in 2021. She's been outside her whole life. She is also cat #2's sister, that's why we adopted her. All the cats are fixed.
We keep cats 1 & 2 away from 3, we have a pocket door in our place, so #3 stays upstairs. We we first got her, she would hide under a bookshelf, and eventually she moved under the bed in our spare bedroom. She comes out and stares at us when we're upstairs, it's cute. She also plays with the toys every night, we can hear it. But it's been almost a year and we feel so bad cause she's alone most of the time. We're wondering if anyone has any experience with this, how long it might take for her to come out of her shell? 2 years? 5? never? I understand she's probably never had human affection so it might take quite some time. Thanks!
Now, we adopted 9-year old cat #3 in 2021. She's been outside her whole life. She is also cat #2's sister, that's why we adopted her. All the cats are fixed.
We keep cats 1 & 2 away from 3, we have a pocket door in our place, so #3 stays upstairs. We we first got her, she would hide under a bookshelf, and eventually she moved under the bed in our spare bedroom. She comes out and stares at us when we're upstairs, it's cute. She also plays with the toys every night, we can hear it. But it's been almost a year and we feel so bad cause she's alone most of the time. We're wondering if anyone has any experience with this, how long it might take for her to come out of her shell? 2 years? 5? never? I understand she's probably never had human affection so it might take quite some time. Thanks!