Almost 2 weeks ago I was woken up by the sound of my 6 year old cat Molly falling from the couch. She had been acting totally normal before, no signs of illness at all. She was breathing really shallowly and her eyes where really dilated. I ran to her and put my had on her side (she was laying on her side) and she just stopped all movement suddenly. Then she appeared to stop breathing and her eyes and mouth stayed open and unmoving.
I pet her and moved her around a few more times and she was completely lax and limp. I then at the time realized she was dead. I got dressed and about 10-15 minutes later I came back to put her in a carrier to have her body picked up. The entire process from me being startled awake to putting her in the carrier was about 40 minutes.
I just keep having thoughts that I wasn't thinking clearly, that I was half asleep and freaking out. I made a lot of choices then that make no sense to me now, i.e. Not cremating her or getting a necropsy and being more mindful. I didn't double check that she was dead. Could I have thought she was dead when she wasn't? It all happened so fast. She was completely unmoving throughout and I struggled to even get her in the carrier. I saw and felt no chest or stomach movements and her eyes stayed fixed in place. My other cat refused to go near her And hid in a corner. I just can't stop thinking that I acted too quickly and frenzied and then just dumped her outside to be taken away by the city.
Could I have mistaken her for dead? I know I will never know for sure because I made so many mistakes and freaked out when I needed to stay calm the most, I really regret it. I wasn't thinking clearly. When I came to my senses I took my other cat for a checkup and the vet said she saw nothing out of the normal with her.
I pet her and moved her around a few more times and she was completely lax and limp. I then at the time realized she was dead. I got dressed and about 10-15 minutes later I came back to put her in a carrier to have her body picked up. The entire process from me being startled awake to putting her in the carrier was about 40 minutes.
I just keep having thoughts that I wasn't thinking clearly, that I was half asleep and freaking out. I made a lot of choices then that make no sense to me now, i.e. Not cremating her or getting a necropsy and being more mindful. I didn't double check that she was dead. Could I have thought she was dead when she wasn't? It all happened so fast. She was completely unmoving throughout and I struggled to even get her in the carrier. I saw and felt no chest or stomach movements and her eyes stayed fixed in place. My other cat refused to go near her And hid in a corner. I just can't stop thinking that I acted too quickly and frenzied and then just dumped her outside to be taken away by the city.
Could I have mistaken her for dead? I know I will never know for sure because I made so many mistakes and freaked out when I needed to stay calm the most, I really regret it. I wasn't thinking clearly. When I came to my senses I took my other cat for a checkup and the vet said she saw nothing out of the normal with her.