Hey Gang... I just had our stray cat & 3 kittens neutered/spayed & they are doing fair to partly cloudly (2 of them are very listless & will hardly eat... sigh) but that's a different issue... prior to being fixed, we had a stray Tom hangin out & occassionally coming in the garage for a snack (I thinks he's the kitten's father) well, last night he came back when the food was out & I watched him to see if any kittens or the Mom would approach... Merlin (our lil male) paid him no mind but the girls stayed hidden in their box... I decided not to let him eat & removed their bowls & did not see him the rest of the nite... so my question is, should I try to not encourage feeding & scare him off or just let things happen as they will... he doesn't seem to be mean to any of the cats & isn't unfriendly, although he will not let me closer then 5-6 feet...
Really need some help here as this is completely uncharted territory for me...
Really need some help here as this is completely uncharted territory for me...