So I got my male kitten, who at first I thought and was told he was female, but later found out he was male. I named him Athena at first and changed it to Azure. The reason I decided to get a kitten was because a have a friend and he owns four cats. All of them are so friendly and love being touched. I never like cats because I thought they didn’t care about you, manipulated you, and didn’t like affection. However his cats loved affection. So after a lot of thinking a decided to get a kitten. I chose kitten over adult because I wanted a strong bond with it. I thought this applied to cats because I always gete up with dogs. Correct me if I’m wrong. He is now 6 months and I got when when he was 1 month. He is still not neutered but I am going to very soon. When my brother found him being sold he was hissing at him even at one month. When I got him home, he was so nice. He loved me very much, ran to me when I came home, and purred with and slept with me all day. Then one day he seemed like he hated me. This happened about 2 weeks later. He doesn’t like to be pet if he’s not purring, only sometimes but very rarely. He purrs around once a day. Sometimes he comes up purring for 5 seconds and others he cuddles me but I can’t cuddle him or else he’ll get uncomfortable and run away. I can pet him most of the time when purring. He purrs a lot when I feed him, doesn’t growl when I pet him while he’s eating, but when I first got him it was really bad when I touched him. He plays really really intense and if I make eye contact with him while he’s playing, he’ll take whatever he has in his mouth, make a weird sound with his voice, and run away as if he’s scared and play with it away from me. He always plays really crazy like he’s trying to kill something. He licks a lot, and is pretty skidding most of the time. Sometimes he’s really cool but mostly he’s not. He is in my room a lot because of certain circumstances that will change but he doesn’t explore the house a good amount or as much as possible. My friend says he was probably abused at an early age but I don’t know. A lot of people say neutering will change him, but I’m not getting a very clear or straight forward answer anywhere I look. Will neutering make him more affectionate, to where I can give him a lil scratch when I’m going somewhere without him running away when I reach out. I’ve tried to train him with treats but it seems like he doesn’t really learn. Also, is this kitten behavior and he will change as he gets older? If so how much older, about a year or an old get? I’m not going to lie, I really wanted a very affectionate and loving cat, preferably female cause I didn’t want any early dominance issues or anything. At the shelter I went to they had a beautiful grey orange eyed femal kitten that sat in a bed in a corner of a big room with cats and food for all of them. She was 6 months and her brother was too. Her brother acted a lot like azure, and I didn’t really feel any connection or sense of affection from him, but his sister I thought was the right one I wanted her a lot. She loved being touched and purred a little when I touched her. But she had to stay in the shelter for a month or two, so for some reason, we got Azure. As of now I don’t want to lie to myself, I regret getting Azure and wish I got the female kitten. I don’t ant a very affectionate cat like my friends cats. Should I keep faith, and it will change after I neuter it or after it matures, or is this cat going to be a non affectionate cat? I do a lot to help him but at times it’s tough. He doesn’t bite much, but when I pick him up he growls really bad, not hissing, not showing teeth just growling non stop for bursts. But doesn’t do anything, trying to run away a little bit.