MA, I'm sorry you and Racer had a little row, and I'm sorry he took his frustration out on you, but like Hedi says, we all do that when we're feeling punk. Frankly, I think you did exactly the right thing -- just what you would have done with a human loved one who took his frustration out on you once too often -- a vehement demand that he smarten up, and then the calmer assurance of love and request that he be reasonable. I hope he's feeling calmer now, and that your wrist is OK. Lotsa prayers and good vibes for both of you.