After 17 years of not having cats due to our son's allergies which he overcame we ended up with 2 awesome cats. I visited cat sites and came up with a lot of people saying time and time again your "furbabies" Cute I thought at first because in a way they are our babies! But I don't have the same bond with them as I do my child, family or friends which folks equate them to. Frankly if I never had a child I still wouldn't. Next, some people talk about dire circumstances concerning their cat and want to rehome them, as a result they're disparaged for even entertaining the idea. Yet there are people who have kids with disabilities who are violent and or destructive, but it seems more acceptable to find them different living arrangement but God forbid your cat! I don't understand this logic, any thoughts on this?