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About three weeks ago I lost one of my boys, who was best friends with one of my other boy cats Figs. Right after I put him down I gathered my dog and Figs and ended up staying at my dads house since I was petsitting near his house (and couldn't bare to be at home), but left the female cat Sasha at my house mostly because sometimes she's a bully and chases Figs around. Figs is about 3yrs old, a very friendly dog like cat, comes when he's called, very attention seeking, likes to sit on my chest. He always purrs and licks my face. He loves to be cuddled and held, never gives me any fuss. A couple days before leaving my dads house I noticed him getting a little distant, and now that I'm back at my house I feel his personality has done a 180. I don't think he's purred once since we've been back, he won't sleep with me, he won't come when he's called unless it involves food. The other cat Sasha is doing just fine, she doesn't even seem to be bullying him that much- I think I heard one scuffle. Figs is also a vocal cat- I haven't really heard him make any noise at all. In fact, he spends 90% of his day on my catio. Usually if I go outside, I can call him over and he's a glutton for affection, but now nothing. I thought maybe he's readjusting, I know cats sometimes don't take change, but we've been back home for a week now.
He's eating and drinking fine, seems healthy otherwise, will even play with a toy or two every now and then. I have lost one of my other cats less than a year ago, and he was quiet for a while- but I felt that was due to more of a traumatic experience (my neighbors dogs from down the street got out and ripped open my catio. It is now reinforced and those dogs are gone, but him and Theo hid for house and Figs had a cut on his leg- there is no doubt in my mind that he saw what happened and had a close call himself). This time, Theo just went to the vet and never came back. My other cat Sasha is acting completely fine.
I don't know if it's towards me or not either, my dog came over to him and he licked her head like he always does.
Can a cats personality change so drastically for so long after loosing a close fellow cat? These two would sleep together, groom each other, ect. I feel like I have lost two cats instead of one, like loosing Theo wasn't hard enough. Anything I can do to help him?
I'm probably going to take him to my vet next week just to make sure nothing's going on medical wise just in case.
He's eating and drinking fine, seems healthy otherwise, will even play with a toy or two every now and then. I have lost one of my other cats less than a year ago, and he was quiet for a while- but I felt that was due to more of a traumatic experience (my neighbors dogs from down the street got out and ripped open my catio. It is now reinforced and those dogs are gone, but him and Theo hid for house and Figs had a cut on his leg- there is no doubt in my mind that he saw what happened and had a close call himself). This time, Theo just went to the vet and never came back. My other cat Sasha is acting completely fine.
I don't know if it's towards me or not either, my dog came over to him and he licked her head like he always does.
Can a cats personality change so drastically for so long after loosing a close fellow cat? These two would sleep together, groom each other, ect. I feel like I have lost two cats instead of one, like loosing Theo wasn't hard enough. Anything I can do to help him?
I'm probably going to take him to my vet next week just to make sure nothing's going on medical wise just in case.
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