I have a 2 year old Baxter (neutered male) we rescued when he was 6 months..... and a 4 month old Bartholo"mew" (neutered male) that we recently adopted.
So far, Baxter doesn't seem to mind sharing toys, hiding spaces, sleeping spaces, etc... and even doesn't mind too much when the kitten tries to steal his food. They seem to be going in each other's litter boxes, so I figure they can sort that one out over time on their own...although I don't know if this could be a cause of concern to allow the kitten to use Baxter's box.
Since Bartholomew is a new addition, we've been keeping him seperated in the bathroom during the night when we can't supervise them.
First thing in the morning, they touch noses and then are very anxious for breakfast They eat find right next to each other and there is a lot of purring going on.
After that, they pretty much use the litterbox right away, and the kitten seems to go directly for Baxter's box instead of his own and I can't really tell if Baxter is annoyed by it or not. He tries to use the kitten's box which is in the bathroom, and I don't shoo either away and just let them do their business.
After that, the play begins. Usually lots of trilling going on with Baxter. They take mutual turns chasing each other across the room....but within a few minutes, it usually ends up with Baxter pinning the kitten down...and the kitten hisses...and then Baxter runs away. Then the kitten is back at instigating chase.
Once I hear hissing, I usually try to intervene and distract with toys and give each a reassurring pat on the head. When they don't feel like playing, they seem fine sleeping near each other (although not on the same sofa) without incident.
It's only been a week so my expectations might be off....but I'm concerned with the play that leads to hissing. Also this morning it got REALLY rough, and I couldn't tell which one was hissing and growling while Baxter had the kitten pinned down. I don't want to keep the kitten locked away in the bathroom for his whole life and naturally I want them to get along.
What sort of timeline am I looking at, where the cats will warm up to each other? I don't need them to be best friends or anything, but I don't want play time to always turn into fighting. I'm find with hissing, because I feel it's natural for the little one to be scared or intimidated when a larger cat has him pinned down. I would think the fear would eventually wear off as he's more comfortable in his new home. But the growling concerns me.
How long until your new additions could play without intervention or supervision?
So far, Baxter doesn't seem to mind sharing toys, hiding spaces, sleeping spaces, etc... and even doesn't mind too much when the kitten tries to steal his food. They seem to be going in each other's litter boxes, so I figure they can sort that one out over time on their own...although I don't know if this could be a cause of concern to allow the kitten to use Baxter's box.
Since Bartholomew is a new addition, we've been keeping him seperated in the bathroom during the night when we can't supervise them.
First thing in the morning, they touch noses and then are very anxious for breakfast They eat find right next to each other and there is a lot of purring going on.
After that, they pretty much use the litterbox right away, and the kitten seems to go directly for Baxter's box instead of his own and I can't really tell if Baxter is annoyed by it or not. He tries to use the kitten's box which is in the bathroom, and I don't shoo either away and just let them do their business.
After that, the play begins. Usually lots of trilling going on with Baxter. They take mutual turns chasing each other across the room....but within a few minutes, it usually ends up with Baxter pinning the kitten down...and the kitten hisses...and then Baxter runs away. Then the kitten is back at instigating chase.
Once I hear hissing, I usually try to intervene and distract with toys and give each a reassurring pat on the head. When they don't feel like playing, they seem fine sleeping near each other (although not on the same sofa) without incident.
It's only been a week so my expectations might be off....but I'm concerned with the play that leads to hissing. Also this morning it got REALLY rough, and I couldn't tell which one was hissing and growling while Baxter had the kitten pinned down. I don't want to keep the kitten locked away in the bathroom for his whole life and naturally I want them to get along.
What sort of timeline am I looking at, where the cats will warm up to each other? I don't need them to be best friends or anything, but I don't want play time to always turn into fighting. I'm find with hissing, because I feel it's natural for the little one to be scared or intimidated when a larger cat has him pinned down. I would think the fear would eventually wear off as he's more comfortable in his new home. But the growling concerns me.
How long until your new additions could play without intervention or supervision?