Sorry if this has been posted elsewhere but it's the first time I've dealt with this, we've always been a 1 cat household since I was little, so Chickster and Boo were a special deal.
Since Boo passed back on 08/02, and actually, before that, when he started really declining, Chickster noticed and left him alone (Really, probably closer to June, she started that) But since about July, she stopped coming into the bathroom. It was a daily ritual and she would always (sorry for the TMI) burst through the bathroom door like Hi! Here I am! Let's get some sink and tub water! Because Boo always got his tub water in the mornings. Well that quit. And since Boo has passed especially, she wouldn't come into the bathroom EVER. Not even by herself. She laid outside of it, she'd look in there, but never go in there. Just starting yesterday, she finally started tapping the door open and sneaking in while I was in there. It was strange, like I said, never gone through this.
I'm sure she's grieving... but I'm not sure what to do to make her feel better other than load her with a lot of attention, especially since we've got the other 3 outside (not counting Rocky who is a pop-up-whenever-to-eat kinda cat).
I've still got Boo's red tent and Chickster's got her black one, but I've caught her sleeping/resting in the red one more often lately. We figure she's working through Boo passing, but not entirely sure what, if anything, we should do. I've been smothering her with attention, and trying to get back to a regular schedule to help get things back to "normal".
She also stopped getting on the bed with me and has only recently started doing it again. She's only one laid down and slept with me for awhile and that was earlier this week.
Boo and Chickster weren't close in an obvious way, if they were I didn't know it. She liked to joke on him and he just wanted her out of sight out of mind, but I think it's really bothered her.
Eh, any suggestions would be helpful. Thanks guys. I worry too much and especially about my babies.
Since Boo passed back on 08/02, and actually, before that, when he started really declining, Chickster noticed and left him alone (Really, probably closer to June, she started that) But since about July, she stopped coming into the bathroom. It was a daily ritual and she would always (sorry for the TMI) burst through the bathroom door like Hi! Here I am! Let's get some sink and tub water! Because Boo always got his tub water in the mornings. Well that quit. And since Boo has passed especially, she wouldn't come into the bathroom EVER. Not even by herself. She laid outside of it, she'd look in there, but never go in there. Just starting yesterday, she finally started tapping the door open and sneaking in while I was in there. It was strange, like I said, never gone through this.
I'm sure she's grieving... but I'm not sure what to do to make her feel better other than load her with a lot of attention, especially since we've got the other 3 outside (not counting Rocky who is a pop-up-whenever-to-eat kinda cat).
I've still got Boo's red tent and Chickster's got her black one, but I've caught her sleeping/resting in the red one more often lately. We figure she's working through Boo passing, but not entirely sure what, if anything, we should do. I've been smothering her with attention, and trying to get back to a regular schedule to help get things back to "normal".
She also stopped getting on the bed with me and has only recently started doing it again. She's only one laid down and slept with me for awhile and that was earlier this week.
Boo and Chickster weren't close in an obvious way, if they were I didn't know it. She liked to joke on him and he just wanted her out of sight out of mind, but I think it's really bothered her.
Eh, any suggestions would be helpful. Thanks guys. I worry too much and especially about my babies.