Hi! I've had my rambunctious sweet boy Oscar for 7 years now! And he's never met a stranger. He loves showing off for all animal and people visitors and is a self declared house greeter.... except when it comes to my boyfriend's three year old. He's never been around young children before and he makes himself scarce every time they get together. I hate it because she's a well meaning kiddo and we set all the typical "soft touch/inside voice" boundaries to keep her safe with the animals (I also have a house rabbit and a dog). She's acclimated well to all the animals and is pretty sad the cat won't hang out. To be honest, I'm pretty sad the cat lives in terror in the farthest corner of the house when she comes over. We're setting up shop and moving in together in just a couple months. Kiddo will be fine with the animals, but I'm worried about Oscar's new life from Mr. Outgoing to Mr. You Only See Me At Night And I Now Live Under The Bed. He's never been like this before and it's been almost year with no improvement Tips on how those two can bond? I was thinking of having her deliver the canned food every day at meal times... Any other thoughts on blending families?
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