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My "angel kitty", Sven, is about 5 years old. I adopted him when he was 3 to be my emotional support cat, and I swear he knows that's his job. My roommate & I both deal with complex post-traumatic stress disorder (C-PTSD), and there have been several times where he has braved a situation that would normally frighten him (like climbing onto a giant beanbag) just so he could help calm one or the other of us down from a panic attack. He stays in my bed with me when I'm depressed or dealing with a flashback and typically comes trotting over if I seem to be in distress.
I have a crazy active imagination and will often pace when I'm brainstorming or daydreaming. Every time I start pacing, my boy will be super attentive to me (like an anxious attentiveness) and try everything he can to get me to stop. Usually this means getting in my way, either just sitting in my path or rolling onto his back, but occasionally he'll try other tactics too (e.g. the other day he jumped right in front of me). I know that pacing in cats is typically a bad sign, so is he just worried there's something wrong with me? Is there anything I can do to reassure him that I'm okay? I've tried ignoring him (he stays put & interrupts my brainstorming "flow"), walking into him as if he's not there (he'll move but will still watch me and will often try to get in my way again), and stopping to try and reassure him that I'm okay before gently moving out of the way and continuing (same as previous reaction). I pace like this several times a day and I want him to know that I'm okay so he doesn't have to stress about it so much.
I have a crazy active imagination and will often pace when I'm brainstorming or daydreaming. Every time I start pacing, my boy will be super attentive to me (like an anxious attentiveness) and try everything he can to get me to stop. Usually this means getting in my way, either just sitting in my path or rolling onto his back, but occasionally he'll try other tactics too (e.g. the other day he jumped right in front of me). I know that pacing in cats is typically a bad sign, so is he just worried there's something wrong with me? Is there anything I can do to reassure him that I'm okay? I've tried ignoring him (he stays put & interrupts my brainstorming "flow"), walking into him as if he's not there (he'll move but will still watch me and will often try to get in my way again), and stopping to try and reassure him that I'm okay before gently moving out of the way and continuing (same as previous reaction). I pace like this several times a day and I want him to know that I'm okay so he doesn't have to stress about it so much.