Hi everyone! I have a kind of silly question. Back in September, my boyfriend and I adopted our second cat. The rescue wasn't entirely sure of her age, partly because she's tiny, but they estimated she was around eight months, and she would be a little over a year now. When I first brought her home, she was such a lap cat. Any time you sat down near her, she would climb into your lap and hang out, even fall asleep. After the first month or two, she stopped sitting in our laps at all and hasn't done so at all since then.
Has anyone ever experienced something like this? I feel like it's usually the opposite, where the cat might start sitting in laps as they grow more comfortable. I'm wondering if she may have just grown out of it, or if sitting in our laps was a way to feel more secure in a new, scary environment? I'm also dreading the thought that we may have betrayed her trust at all to make her not want to sit in our laps. She still loves playing with us, follows me around the house a lot (although usually because she wants to play), and she seems to enjoy being pet a little more than she used to. Obviously I adore her no matter what and know that she may just not be a lap cat anymore, but I do miss having her sit with me. Has anyone experienced this kind of situation or have any insight?
Has anyone ever experienced something like this? I feel like it's usually the opposite, where the cat might start sitting in laps as they grow more comfortable. I'm wondering if she may have just grown out of it, or if sitting in our laps was a way to feel more secure in a new, scary environment? I'm also dreading the thought that we may have betrayed her trust at all to make her not want to sit in our laps. She still loves playing with us, follows me around the house a lot (although usually because she wants to play), and she seems to enjoy being pet a little more than she used to. Obviously I adore her no matter what and know that she may just not be a lap cat anymore, but I do miss having her sit with me. Has anyone experienced this kind of situation or have any insight?