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My mom has 2 16 year old cats. They were my childhood cats but since she was responsible for them for their whole life she kept them when I moved out. One of the cats had never groomed himself his whole life. We were told when we adopted him that he was left outside the shelter by himself as kitten and we always assumed he was never taught how. We brushed him regularly and the vet had no concerns. Now, he is 16 years old. My mom kept telling me that he has “lick marks” on his fur and she thought that he had dried spit on his fur. I went to see her for the first time in a few months and I looked at the “lick marks” and realized that it was matting. My mom felt terrible that he didn’t notice that it was matting. We are planning on taking him to a groomer. I was wondering if anyone had any other advice in addition to going to a groomer. In his 16 years of living he has never ever groomed himself. I brush him when I go visit I my mom but I don’t think it’s enough since I’m only there every few months. He doesn’t like being brushed, which I’m assuming has something to do with the pain from his matting. Should we be bathing him? I don’t want to traumatize him but I want to keep him as clean and comfortable as possible. My mom is willing to do whatever she has to to keep him comfortable and happy.