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Hello! I am in the process of introducing my cat (Lexi, age 2) to my brother's cat (Braeburn, age 5). At this point, they are separated for most of the day, but interact around dinner time. Braeburn growls whenever Lexi comes too close to him, but he hasn't shown any signs of aggression. Lexi pretty clearly wants to be friends. Mostly she gets just close enough to him that he starts growling at her, and then she lies down and blinks at him. However, sometimes she scoots forward and tries to start a play fight, which he doesn't like at all.
In addition to this I think Lexi was undersocialized as a kitten; she plays very rough. I have slowly been teaching her that my hands are not toys (by yelping and ignoring her when she accidentally hurts me) and she's making progress, but I don't know how to get her to be more gentle with Braeburn.
I thought we were more or less at a good place, still with some ways to go but making good progress. Actually, I still think this, but there is a complication. Tonight, Lexi's claw cut Braeburn very close to one of his eyes. There wasn't anything particularly noticeable about the incident, just one usual, Lexi trying to play and Braeburn telling her to buzz off. It's a very tiny cut, and no one thinks that Lexi was intentionally trying to hurt him, but now everyone is concerned that she might actually get his eye some time, and that would obviously be bad on a number of levels.
So... I'm seeking advice. What do you think? Do I need to step back the introduction? What do I need to modify? How do I teach Lexi that she needs to pull her claws in when she plays?
In addition to this I think Lexi was undersocialized as a kitten; she plays very rough. I have slowly been teaching her that my hands are not toys (by yelping and ignoring her when she accidentally hurts me) and she's making progress, but I don't know how to get her to be more gentle with Braeburn.
I thought we were more or less at a good place, still with some ways to go but making good progress. Actually, I still think this, but there is a complication. Tonight, Lexi's claw cut Braeburn very close to one of his eyes. There wasn't anything particularly noticeable about the incident, just one usual, Lexi trying to play and Braeburn telling her to buzz off. It's a very tiny cut, and no one thinks that Lexi was intentionally trying to hurt him, but now everyone is concerned that she might actually get his eye some time, and that would obviously be bad on a number of levels.
So... I'm seeking advice. What do you think? Do I need to step back the introduction? What do I need to modify? How do I teach Lexi that she needs to pull her claws in when she plays?