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Hello! I made a post on here at the beginning of the month about the introduction of my resident cat Una (female, 7 years) to my new kitten Cam (male, 3 months). We've now had Cam for a month and I don't really think there has been much progress over the past couple weeks.
Cam is no longer afraid of Una's hissing and growling and will wrap his arms around Una to try and wrestle, which she clearly does not enjoy. Obviously he's much smaller than Una so she will just push him off. Una has also begun snapping at his ears when Cam tries to play with her. There hasn't been injuries or fur flying, which is good, but I'm still concerned. Sometimes Una will tolerate his attempt to wrestle and just kind of sits there not doing anything, but most of the time she seems upset. I play with Cam whenever possible to try and spend his energy so that it doesn't end up directed at Una, but it doesn't always help.
They've done some good things recently, my mom woke up this morning to Una grooming Cam in her bed. They can also chill in the same room (within a foot of each other) as long as Cam isn't bothering her. But they have yet to really become buddies.
Another concerning thing that Una has done recently is that she has begun crying a lot more. Usually, she would only do this at night after we've all gone to bed because she wants someone to play with her. Now she's doing it during the day, but doesn't really seem interested in playing. She's also mostly stopped sleeping downstairs, but will still spend time downstairs like normal. I'm just worried (and probably overthinking) that she's really stressed
I've been considering buying a feliway diffuser to help Una be a little less on edge, would this be a good purchase? What are some other things I could try to help solidify their friendship?
Cam is no longer afraid of Una's hissing and growling and will wrap his arms around Una to try and wrestle, which she clearly does not enjoy. Obviously he's much smaller than Una so she will just push him off. Una has also begun snapping at his ears when Cam tries to play with her. There hasn't been injuries or fur flying, which is good, but I'm still concerned. Sometimes Una will tolerate his attempt to wrestle and just kind of sits there not doing anything, but most of the time she seems upset. I play with Cam whenever possible to try and spend his energy so that it doesn't end up directed at Una, but it doesn't always help.
They've done some good things recently, my mom woke up this morning to Una grooming Cam in her bed. They can also chill in the same room (within a foot of each other) as long as Cam isn't bothering her. But they have yet to really become buddies.
Another concerning thing that Una has done recently is that she has begun crying a lot more. Usually, she would only do this at night after we've all gone to bed because she wants someone to play with her. Now she's doing it during the day, but doesn't really seem interested in playing. She's also mostly stopped sleeping downstairs, but will still spend time downstairs like normal. I'm just worried (and probably overthinking) that she's really stressed
I've been considering buying a feliway diffuser to help Una be a little less on edge, would this be a good purchase? What are some other things I could try to help solidify their friendship?