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A little about me and my fur babies - I'm a graduate student living alone and I wanted a stress-relieving companion so I went to the local pound and brought home Lucy, a now 9-month-old calico. I've only had her for 2 and a half months but we bonded extremely quickly. She purrs as soon as I walk in the door and can play with me for hours. However, this little girl is a stage 5 clinger! I work a lot from home since I'm writing my thesis and it's impossible to get any work done. She's so needy and will sit on my laptop and bug me incessantly.
So I decided to get her a playful friend to keep her company and help get her energy out. I brought home Salem, a 3-month-old tortie, 5 days ago. Salem came from a home with other cats so she immediately warmed up to Lucy and wants to play but Lucy isn't having any of it.
I live in a tiny apartment and right now I have Lucy in the main area and Salem in my room. The first 2 nights I slept with Salem and after reading posts on here about cat introductions in a small apartment I decided to switch that cats during the night so Lucy could sleep with me.
Now to my problem (such a long intro. Sorry!). Lucy is in that intermediate stage where she's no longer afraid enough of Salem to stay away from my room, but she doesn't trust her enough to be in the same room as her. I couldn't fall asleep until 2am last night because the cats kept tearing up the carpet by my bedroom door and no matter which cat was in my bedroom, they always wanted out. It's getting hard to keep them separated because they keep escaping and they don't like my door being closed. I have a big presentation I have to give tomorrow and I need a good night sleep! Should I move back a step to keep the peace or should I let them roam free for a day and let them hash it out? I know the correct answer is the latter but realistically it's becoming unbearable to keep the separated. I need a good night's sleep, dang it!
So I decided to get her a playful friend to keep her company and help get her energy out. I brought home Salem, a 3-month-old tortie, 5 days ago. Salem came from a home with other cats so she immediately warmed up to Lucy and wants to play but Lucy isn't having any of it.
I live in a tiny apartment and right now I have Lucy in the main area and Salem in my room. The first 2 nights I slept with Salem and after reading posts on here about cat introductions in a small apartment I decided to switch that cats during the night so Lucy could sleep with me.
Now to my problem (such a long intro. Sorry!). Lucy is in that intermediate stage where she's no longer afraid enough of Salem to stay away from my room, but she doesn't trust her enough to be in the same room as her. I couldn't fall asleep until 2am last night because the cats kept tearing up the carpet by my bedroom door and no matter which cat was in my bedroom, they always wanted out. It's getting hard to keep them separated because they keep escaping and they don't like my door being closed. I have a big presentation I have to give tomorrow and I need a good night sleep! Should I move back a step to keep the peace or should I let them roam free for a day and let them hash it out? I know the correct answer is the latter but realistically it's becoming unbearable to keep the separated. I need a good night's sleep, dang it!