My 1 year old cat Iris was slowly introduced to a new kitten Oliver. We got him because Iris has separation anxiety every time I leave the house. Over the course of a few weeks of them being around each other, I was nothing but stressed out and having really bad anxiety. Iris seemed ok as long as Oliver wasn't around her. I know that the intro phase can take a while, but it didn't really seem to get any better.
He is a very playful kitten and always tried to play with her but she would either just run away or hiss at him. Sometimes she would chase him around, but I knew it was more of a aggression play than a nice play. Oliver is more of a lovable kitten, Iris shows her love from a distance and I'm wondering if just the fact that they are such different personalities is why she couldn't get along with him. Her whole personality changed when he was given free range of the house. She was a lot more aggressive and distant towards us and it just made me have anxiety attacks because they couldn't get along.
What I did was bring Oliver to my dad's house for now, he has a boy kitten around the same age as him and within 1 hour of being together they acted like brothers! Playing and rolling around and sleeping next to each other. They had a instant bond and now I am wondering if I should break that up, and try to bring him back to try with Iris again? Or does anyone think that Iris is more of a one cat household type cat? As soon as Oliver left, Iris went right back to being herself a few days later and is a lot more calm and happy.
Like I said before I know introductions can sometimes take a while, but I just don't want to feel like I'm forcing this relationship knowing in the end Iris might just be stressed out all the time so I'm not sure which route to take?
He is a very playful kitten and always tried to play with her but she would either just run away or hiss at him. Sometimes she would chase him around, but I knew it was more of a aggression play than a nice play. Oliver is more of a lovable kitten, Iris shows her love from a distance and I'm wondering if just the fact that they are such different personalities is why she couldn't get along with him. Her whole personality changed when he was given free range of the house. She was a lot more aggressive and distant towards us and it just made me have anxiety attacks because they couldn't get along.
What I did was bring Oliver to my dad's house for now, he has a boy kitten around the same age as him and within 1 hour of being together they acted like brothers! Playing and rolling around and sleeping next to each other. They had a instant bond and now I am wondering if I should break that up, and try to bring him back to try with Iris again? Or does anyone think that Iris is more of a one cat household type cat? As soon as Oliver left, Iris went right back to being herself a few days later and is a lot more calm and happy.
Like I said before I know introductions can sometimes take a while, but I just don't want to feel like I'm forcing this relationship knowing in the end Iris might just be stressed out all the time so I'm not sure which route to take?