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My cat has been acting so distant from me and I’m so concerned
here’s a little background before what I think might be the issue.
We recently got a kitten, Max 2-3 weeks ago my Nova 11month and him got along great they play with each other sleep and she even grooms him
On Friday I gave them baths because they had fleas and I wanted to clean them to put their collars on
Since then Nova hissed at max like she didn’t recognize him which I understand cause the scent is now gone.
so the next 2 days she still would hiss at him not hitting or biting him just hissing.
So the incident is they were both sitting on the couch with me and she snapped at him and I was afraid she would attack him and on me so I spanked her butt not hard at all just a hey stop it but she got scared and ran to the other room and I didn’t see her till dinner time.
fast forward to the next day and I’m crying cause my cat Wants nothing to do with me when I go near her she just ignores me and I carry her and kiss her pet her and she just wants to be alone she stopped purring when I pet her and she normally is all over me
will she forgive me ? Will she play with max again? He wants to play with her and he goes near her and she just hisses she was actually meaner when they first were introduced so I guess that’s good
here’s a little background before what I think might be the issue.
We recently got a kitten, Max 2-3 weeks ago my Nova 11month and him got along great they play with each other sleep and she even grooms him
On Friday I gave them baths because they had fleas and I wanted to clean them to put their collars on
Since then Nova hissed at max like she didn’t recognize him which I understand cause the scent is now gone.
so the next 2 days she still would hiss at him not hitting or biting him just hissing.
So the incident is they were both sitting on the couch with me and she snapped at him and I was afraid she would attack him and on me so I spanked her butt not hard at all just a hey stop it but she got scared and ran to the other room and I didn’t see her till dinner time.
fast forward to the next day and I’m crying cause my cat Wants nothing to do with me when I go near her she just ignores me and I carry her and kiss her pet her and she just wants to be alone she stopped purring when I pet her and she normally is all over me
will she forgive me ? Will she play with max again? He wants to play with her and he goes near her and she just hisses she was actually meaner when they first were introduced so I guess that’s good