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Hey all,
I have a 3 year old flamepoint who is my #1. My partner of 4 years if fully aware of this btw. It’s a different kind of love, very paternal re cat.
Anyway, we just got engaged last month. Something I never thought we’do, but feels right.
As weve started talking about the BIG TOPICS, cohabitation came up. In a normal situation, I wouldn’t be against it. But my cat is very interactive and playful... and he has two Great Danes and a large mixed breed dog. I worry about Powder (my cat) getting hurt or not adjusting well to the idea of living in a zoo—he also has two exotic birds and two
I expressed my concerns to Powder’s vet who said he would probably need to have his own room in that kind of situation.
Any experience when it comes to blending furry families? I’m non-traditional, he’s traditional. But we’re both willing to work on a solution. We’re city folk so I’ve introduced the idea of “living together, separately” which is becoming more common in city life... essentially keeping separate apartments.
Either way, look forward to hearing your experience/suggestions.
I have a 3 year old flamepoint who is my #1. My partner of 4 years if fully aware of this btw. It’s a different kind of love, very paternal re cat.
Anyway, we just got engaged last month. Something I never thought we’do, but feels right.
As weve started talking about the BIG TOPICS, cohabitation came up. In a normal situation, I wouldn’t be against it. But my cat is very interactive and playful... and he has two Great Danes and a large mixed breed dog. I worry about Powder (my cat) getting hurt or not adjusting well to the idea of living in a zoo—he also has two exotic birds and two
I expressed my concerns to Powder’s vet who said he would probably need to have his own room in that kind of situation.
Any experience when it comes to blending furry families? I’m non-traditional, he’s traditional. But we’re both willing to work on a solution. We’re city folk so I’ve introduced the idea of “living together, separately” which is becoming more common in city life... essentially keeping separate apartments.
Either way, look forward to hearing your experience/suggestions.