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I have two kitties that are 3months apart. One 3 months Female and the other 6 Months male. The youngest one is our resident cat and she is very playful, energetic, loving & loves the company of our new kitty, however the new kitty likes to be left alone most of the time and carried by us humans, not very energetic compared to her.
However when they both play, he is too rough with her and always bites her neck area and she starts crying and I have to constantly break them apart when they are play fighting because he is too rough with her. They don't hiss or growl and can get along most of the time, she grooms him when he is sleeping and tries to sleep next to him but he gets up and walks away and lets her have his bed.
He is also slow to eat his food and she just chomps down her food and then she will go over to his bowl and help him finish his food and he just lets her and then is hungry not long after.
I want to be able to leave them both together alone when I am not home but scared after a few weeks now that he might actually hurt her if I am not there.
Thoughts on how I can teach him not to be so aggressive with her? I usually just squirt him with water which usually does the trick, but every time they play fight, he gets too excited and rough with her.
However when they both play, he is too rough with her and always bites her neck area and she starts crying and I have to constantly break them apart when they are play fighting because he is too rough with her. They don't hiss or growl and can get along most of the time, she grooms him when he is sleeping and tries to sleep next to him but he gets up and walks away and lets her have his bed.
He is also slow to eat his food and she just chomps down her food and then she will go over to his bowl and help him finish his food and he just lets her and then is hungry not long after.
I want to be able to leave them both together alone when I am not home but scared after a few weeks now that he might actually hurt her if I am not there.
Thoughts on how I can teach him not to be so aggressive with her? I usually just squirt him with water which usually does the trick, but every time they play fight, he gets too excited and rough with her.