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Oh and yes she is spayed!
They said she’s male-oriented?!!They did say she is very male-orientated because her male owner basically raised her and bottle fed her as a kitten.
If it helps you to know that you have the option of an “out”, you still do - calling shelters and saying “I adopted a cat whose owners didn’t warn me that she’s aggressive towards women. She does well with my boyfriend and would probably be fine in an all-male home, can you help her find one?” until you find a shelter that says “yes”.We did not get her from a shelter we got her through German eBay lol. Her previous owners said that they just didnt have the time for her as they work full time, have a toddler and a very energetic jack russel.
This is brilliant!!!So here is an update on the situation!: Last night when we got home we opened up the bedroom where she usually likes to hangout and I sat on the bed next to my bf. She came in and just sniffed around and watched me for a while and left. We kind of did this on and off the whole night I would move rooms and my bf would sit next to me and eventually she came onto the bed and sat on top of me. I tried to stay calm but because she was so close I was scared if I did anything it would set her off.
Probably not a bad sign.We just talked with her in a calm voice and later on I gave her some treats. We moved into my bf's studio and watched a movie and she slept under the couch we were sitting on. But, she was scratching at the couch a good bit so Im wondering if that was kind of a bad sign?
About something in his head being "wired wrong," this is a rat we're talking about, and who's to say they are "wired wrong" if they don't behave in ways that humans find acceptable? What he did probably made perfect sense to HIM and his goal in life isn't to please and serve humans (like a dog, for example.)I had a similar situation happen a while ago with a pet of a different species (a rat). Sometimes he was a sweet cuddly ball of fuzz, and sometimes he would abruptly turn into ratzilla, charge my hand and bite me hard enough to draw blood. I spent months trying everything - neutering, drugs, housing with/without cage mates - but I think there was just something wired wrong inside his little head and there was nothing that I could do to change that.
HiShould I not be playing with her as much?
Your poor girl was probably stressed most of her life. Talk to her a lot. Let her know where you are, especially if your on the side with her bad eye. As time goes on she will learn the different smells in your house and be able to tell what's happening by her nose.Also just for some context of where she was before: We did not get her from a shelter we got her through German eBay lol. Her previous owners said that they just didnt have the time for her as they work full time, have a toddler and a very energetic jack russel. They did say she is very male-orientated because her male owner basically raised her and bottle fed her as a kitten. I do think she has some trauama as she only has one 'good' eye. They told us she was bit by a dog when she was a kitten and so she is blind in her right eye so I can image then living with a dog didnt help. They also said they never played with her much as she usually just liked to be by herself and then cuddle when she wanted to.