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I know there are lots of posts about cat introductions on here already, but I was just hoping for a bit of advice on my specific situation as I am just finding it really hard to interpret my kitties behaviour - any advice much appreciated!
So I have a 2 yr old Maine coon Margot and 12 days ago got a 3 month old kitten - Jerry. I was hopeful they would get on as Margot made friends with the neighbours cat for a while.
We started with the recommended introduction process, him in separate room etc, scent and site swapping, then meeting through a barrier. All that seemed to go reasonably ok, a bit of hissing from Margot if he got a bit over excited and stuck his paw through, generally she seemed quite cautious of him but also curious. Was ok eating either side of gate etc. We let them meet in same room on about day 8, partly because it was becoming impractical to keep them apart as the room we have to keep Jerry in means Margot can’t get upstairs which I don’t think she appreciates, and Jerry was so desperate to get to Margot and was escaping and getting in her room despite our best efforts to catch him. So anyway, we’ve been letting them mix face to face for 15 mins or so at a time, there is quite a lot of staring, tail twitching and growling from Margot and the occasional hiss, but now it’s only if he runs at her or gets too close - which is quite a lot cause he’s so bouncy and desperate to play. On the other hand, ears are always forward, there is the very occasional slow blink and she seems less scared now and more curious, sometimes goes up to him as if she wants to play, she even made her happy trilling noise today as she went towards him, but then she growled when she got to him, which I just don’t get. Also some ‘dabbing’ with paws, but also ending in growling, so not sure if playing or fighting.. can’t see any claws, Jerry often arches his back, but he does that when he’s playing sometimes anyway. At the moment I try to distract them with toys but that’s easier said than done as Margot is not that interested in playing and Jerry just starts trying to join in with her toy and gets too in her face, so then I try to coax him away or pick him up. I reward with treats when they sit calmly near each other.
So wondering if I should slow things down, or jsut let things play out and hope the growling lessens?
Thanks in advance!!
I know there are lots of posts about cat introductions on here already, but I was just hoping for a bit of advice on my specific situation as I am just finding it really hard to interpret my kitties behaviour - any advice much appreciated!
So I have a 2 yr old Maine coon Margot and 12 days ago got a 3 month old kitten - Jerry. I was hopeful they would get on as Margot made friends with the neighbours cat for a while.
We started with the recommended introduction process, him in separate room etc, scent and site swapping, then meeting through a barrier. All that seemed to go reasonably ok, a bit of hissing from Margot if he got a bit over excited and stuck his paw through, generally she seemed quite cautious of him but also curious. Was ok eating either side of gate etc. We let them meet in same room on about day 8, partly because it was becoming impractical to keep them apart as the room we have to keep Jerry in means Margot can’t get upstairs which I don’t think she appreciates, and Jerry was so desperate to get to Margot and was escaping and getting in her room despite our best efforts to catch him. So anyway, we’ve been letting them mix face to face for 15 mins or so at a time, there is quite a lot of staring, tail twitching and growling from Margot and the occasional hiss, but now it’s only if he runs at her or gets too close - which is quite a lot cause he’s so bouncy and desperate to play. On the other hand, ears are always forward, there is the very occasional slow blink and she seems less scared now and more curious, sometimes goes up to him as if she wants to play, she even made her happy trilling noise today as she went towards him, but then she growled when she got to him, which I just don’t get. Also some ‘dabbing’ with paws, but also ending in growling, so not sure if playing or fighting.. can’t see any claws, Jerry often arches his back, but he does that when he’s playing sometimes anyway. At the moment I try to distract them with toys but that’s easier said than done as Margot is not that interested in playing and Jerry just starts trying to join in with her toy and gets too in her face, so then I try to coax him away or pick him up. I reward with treats when they sit calmly near each other.
So wondering if I should slow things down, or jsut let things play out and hope the growling lessens?
Thanks in advance!!