hi all
Bit of background...
I have a five year old Bengal cross. Loves the outdoors, big hunter
When he was one year old we got a puppy...never any problems, they do their own thing but always got on fine.
Then we had a baby a year later. I was really worried about zep (our cat) but he managed fine- as he’s so outdoorsy it never seemed to bother him. That was two years ago.
Over the last 9-10 months his outdoor wanderings have been lasting longer and he started disappearing for a week or two at a time...Now he hasn’t been home in months. We know he’s in the area having had reports of him being in other people’s houses (and I actually did see him briefly on our roof last night), but he isn’t spending any time at home.
I’m in a quandry about what to do...My main worry is he’s now really overdue his vaccinations, so I was hoping to bring him in (god knows how!) if I can and keep him in until I can get him vaccinated...or keep him in to try and reset him a bit (!!!)...but I think he will just be miserable.
He’s clearly having a lovely time, but I don’t think he’s just visiting one person otherwise at least I could have a discussion with them about taking over responsibility for him. (As far as I know anyway...he has ‘misplaced’ a lot of collars over the last year so I do have my suspicions).
Any advice on this would be great. Another big worry now is it’s been so long since he’s been back I’m worried about the cat/dog dynamic as generally our dog hates cats (although historically always loved zep).
Would really value any words of wisdom or tales of experience.
Bit of background...
I have a five year old Bengal cross. Loves the outdoors, big hunter
When he was one year old we got a puppy...never any problems, they do their own thing but always got on fine.
Then we had a baby a year later. I was really worried about zep (our cat) but he managed fine- as he’s so outdoorsy it never seemed to bother him. That was two years ago.
Over the last 9-10 months his outdoor wanderings have been lasting longer and he started disappearing for a week or two at a time...Now he hasn’t been home in months. We know he’s in the area having had reports of him being in other people’s houses (and I actually did see him briefly on our roof last night), but he isn’t spending any time at home.
I’m in a quandry about what to do...My main worry is he’s now really overdue his vaccinations, so I was hoping to bring him in (god knows how!) if I can and keep him in until I can get him vaccinated...or keep him in to try and reset him a bit (!!!)...but I think he will just be miserable.
He’s clearly having a lovely time, but I don’t think he’s just visiting one person otherwise at least I could have a discussion with them about taking over responsibility for him. (As far as I know anyway...he has ‘misplaced’ a lot of collars over the last year so I do have my suspicions).
Any advice on this would be great. Another big worry now is it’s been so long since he’s been back I’m worried about the cat/dog dynamic as generally our dog hates cats (although historically always loved zep).
Would really value any words of wisdom or tales of experience.