Problem 1 : I have a neutered tom cat, and two female cats (not spayed), my tom cat is still 'interested' when my females come into season, i thought when they were snipped it was supposed to stop? Because he is driving me 'nuts' !!
Problem 2 : A week before his neutering, said tom cat, managed to catch both of my females, between them they had 9 kittens (if i'd had the room & money I would have kept them all, but thankfully, we found loving homes for them all except two for us), we kept two, both males, and since they were about 3 months old (they are now 5 months) the father has been mounting one of them, like he would with a female, biting the back of his neck as if he is about to 'do the business' ! Is this his way of showing who is boss? Or do I have a bisexual cat?? *worried face* He is also walking around meowing when i shoo him away, like he is complaining that I disturbed him!
Problem 3 : my tom cat keeps attacking one of the females, once they start fighting, the other female joins in and they both attack the first female. Not only does this scare me and hurt her, it is scaring the little cats and I am finding it all very distressing, as now the attacked female is almost like an outcast. I have been wondering if this is like a 'pack' thing. Trying to push one female out so they can be a family. May I also say, the kittens we kept are the attacked females offspring, yet the other female & tom cat do not attack them?
Please note, despite both of my females getting pregnant by my tom cat, I am a responsible cat owner, so please dont respond by saying I should have done this, that and the other!
The appointment I got for my toms' neutering was the earliest possible one for his age at the time. And you also need not worry, I am having the two younger toms done next. Also, all my cats are house cats which is why my females are still not spayed (I am saving up for this, for both of them) so please dont reply by saying I need to get them done URGENTLY!
Thank You in advance for any serious responses.
Kind Regards
Problem 2 : A week before his neutering, said tom cat, managed to catch both of my females, between them they had 9 kittens (if i'd had the room & money I would have kept them all, but thankfully, we found loving homes for them all except two for us), we kept two, both males, and since they were about 3 months old (they are now 5 months) the father has been mounting one of them, like he would with a female, biting the back of his neck as if he is about to 'do the business' ! Is this his way of showing who is boss? Or do I have a bisexual cat?? *worried face* He is also walking around meowing when i shoo him away, like he is complaining that I disturbed him!
Problem 3 : my tom cat keeps attacking one of the females, once they start fighting, the other female joins in and they both attack the first female. Not only does this scare me and hurt her, it is scaring the little cats and I am finding it all very distressing, as now the attacked female is almost like an outcast. I have been wondering if this is like a 'pack' thing. Trying to push one female out so they can be a family. May I also say, the kittens we kept are the attacked females offspring, yet the other female & tom cat do not attack them?
Please note, despite both of my females getting pregnant by my tom cat, I am a responsible cat owner, so please dont respond by saying I should have done this, that and the other!
The appointment I got for my toms' neutering was the earliest possible one for his age at the time. And you also need not worry, I am having the two younger toms done next. Also, all my cats are house cats which is why my females are still not spayed (I am saving up for this, for both of them) so please dont reply by saying I need to get them done URGENTLY!
Thank You in advance for any serious responses.
Kind Regards
