Cindy is a calico, and she is very flighty. She does assert herself with Swanie when she needs too (like if he's trying to get overly friendly and she's not interested), but most of the time he's the top cat. She's one to hide under the bed from us too. Fortunately, I've figured out how to get her out. I get da bird out and play with Swanie. She will show up to watch.