Hi everyone,
I'm new on this site and I'd just like to hear feedback from other cat owners regarding somewhat aggressive behaviour in one of my cats. I'm not sure if there's anything I can (or should) do about it and would like to hear your thoughts...
We have 3 cats. 2 of them are 5yrs (Hamster "Hammy" and Nella), they are siblings and we got them as kittens. They have always gotten along well - not really cuddly together or anything, but they always played together and respect each others' space. Hammy, the larger male, is definitely the more boisterous one and sometimes plays pretty rough, but he has never hurt his sister. Nella is more timid in nature, but is still sociable and playful.
Almost a year ago we got our kitten, Samson. We introduced her gradually and kept them mostly separate at first. Hammy started taking to the kitten first and it only took a few days for them to befriend each other. It took longer with Nella... she was hissing and growling for a couple of weeks when Samson would come too near. Samson couldn't have cared less of course... except that as time went on, I think she began to pick up on Nella's timidness. As kittens do, she soon started terrorizing both of the older cats - clawing at and biting their tails and ears, pouncing and sitting on them, etc. Hammy took it in stride and even enjoyed it, but it was obviously awful for Nella. Samson would just chase her all around the house and pounce on her over and over, biting her seemingly pretty hard and relentlessly... Nella rarely retaliated and eventually even stopped running away. She would sit there all tense with her ears back and would make these awful, loud growly/screechy noises the whole time - but wouldn't move. It became the kitten's favourite game to get this reaction. Despite her tiny size, Samson was a big bully. Sometimes when I'd see it happening I'd feel so bad for Nella that I would step in and stop Samson's attack. But she would be at it again within a minute.
Anyway, I didn't like Samson attacking Nella, and I felt bad for Nella, but it seemed like there wasn't much we could do. Other than when Samson attacked, the two actually got along fine and would even sleep side by side sometimes. Nella was normal in every other sense, too - she hadn't changed in how she behaved with us or with Hammy, so we thought maybe it wasn't as bad as it looked. We hoped that Samson might outgrow the rambunctiousness. We hoped, too, that maybe once Samson grew up a bit, Nella would feel like she could fight back because she was more her size......
Not so much. Months later, it is still happening the same way, if not worse. Samson is at least declawed now, but I feel like she's still hurting Nella with her teeth. She's still a few pounds smaller than Nella but that doesn't seem to matter. Nella still doesn't defend herself and still makes the same horrible noise when she's being attacked. On occasion, I find little cuts around her ear and I wonder if it's from Samson. Just this week I also noticed some possible bite marks on her belly, and it looks like one of her nipples was bleeding a bit... it's starting to really concern me. While Nella still acts like herself in most situations, it makes me sad to see her bullied like this!!! Is there anything I can do to prevent Samson from attacking her so much? It doesn't help to push her away or pick Nella up - as soon as I'm gone, Samson is just back at it. FYI, Samson is a very friendly cat in every other sense!
I'm new on this site and I'd just like to hear feedback from other cat owners regarding somewhat aggressive behaviour in one of my cats. I'm not sure if there's anything I can (or should) do about it and would like to hear your thoughts...
We have 3 cats. 2 of them are 5yrs (Hamster "Hammy" and Nella), they are siblings and we got them as kittens. They have always gotten along well - not really cuddly together or anything, but they always played together and respect each others' space. Hammy, the larger male, is definitely the more boisterous one and sometimes plays pretty rough, but he has never hurt his sister. Nella is more timid in nature, but is still sociable and playful.
Almost a year ago we got our kitten, Samson. We introduced her gradually and kept them mostly separate at first. Hammy started taking to the kitten first and it only took a few days for them to befriend each other. It took longer with Nella... she was hissing and growling for a couple of weeks when Samson would come too near. Samson couldn't have cared less of course... except that as time went on, I think she began to pick up on Nella's timidness. As kittens do, she soon started terrorizing both of the older cats - clawing at and biting their tails and ears, pouncing and sitting on them, etc. Hammy took it in stride and even enjoyed it, but it was obviously awful for Nella. Samson would just chase her all around the house and pounce on her over and over, biting her seemingly pretty hard and relentlessly... Nella rarely retaliated and eventually even stopped running away. She would sit there all tense with her ears back and would make these awful, loud growly/screechy noises the whole time - but wouldn't move. It became the kitten's favourite game to get this reaction. Despite her tiny size, Samson was a big bully. Sometimes when I'd see it happening I'd feel so bad for Nella that I would step in and stop Samson's attack. But she would be at it again within a minute.
Anyway, I didn't like Samson attacking Nella, and I felt bad for Nella, but it seemed like there wasn't much we could do. Other than when Samson attacked, the two actually got along fine and would even sleep side by side sometimes. Nella was normal in every other sense, too - she hadn't changed in how she behaved with us or with Hammy, so we thought maybe it wasn't as bad as it looked. We hoped that Samson might outgrow the rambunctiousness. We hoped, too, that maybe once Samson grew up a bit, Nella would feel like she could fight back because she was more her size......
Not so much. Months later, it is still happening the same way, if not worse. Samson is at least declawed now, but I feel like she's still hurting Nella with her teeth. She's still a few pounds smaller than Nella but that doesn't seem to matter. Nella still doesn't defend herself and still makes the same horrible noise when she's being attacked. On occasion, I find little cuts around her ear and I wonder if it's from Samson. Just this week I also noticed some possible bite marks on her belly, and it looks like one of her nipples was bleeding a bit... it's starting to really concern me. While Nella still acts like herself in most situations, it makes me sad to see her bullied like this!!! Is there anything I can do to prevent Samson from attacking her so much? It doesn't help to push her away or pick Nella up - as soon as I'm gone, Samson is just back at it. FYI, Samson is a very friendly cat in every other sense!