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About 5 months ago, we adopted a senior (age 10, but I think she's older) cat from the shelter. We had another senior cat in the home, but she sadly died a couple of months ago. I have to admit that our current cat seems to enjoy being an only cat. She's a bit standoffish and just does her own thing, doesn't seem to need human OR feline companionship.
But...I have a huge hole in my heart from losing my other cat. I'd had her since she was a kitten and she was such a loving, cuddly companion. I miss her so much, and I want to adopt again. I want to minimize stress for our resident cat (Calliope), who was declawed by a former owner and is NOT the playful type. I thought that if I adopted a bonded pair, perhaps they'd play with each other and not bother Calliope much. A kitten would be relentless, but at least I wouldn't have to worry about them fighting/hurting each other like with an adult cat and the kitten couldn't reach Calliope on any of her daily perches. I could keep them separate most of the time. I work from home and could play with the kitten quite a bit to keep him occupied.
I'd love to get some feedback! We had a disastrous time trying to introduce a new cat to the household with our former cat. We had some very bad matches (cats who aggressively attacked her) before getting Calliope, and even THAT was a struggle. Three months in, former cat still despised/hissed at Calliope, but at least they weren't fighting. But it was months of baby gates and rotating rooms and litter boxes and living room time, and it was just awful. I want to minimize a disruptive situation and have a smooth transition.
Thanks!
But...I have a huge hole in my heart from losing my other cat. I'd had her since she was a kitten and she was such a loving, cuddly companion. I miss her so much, and I want to adopt again. I want to minimize stress for our resident cat (Calliope), who was declawed by a former owner and is NOT the playful type. I thought that if I adopted a bonded pair, perhaps they'd play with each other and not bother Calliope much. A kitten would be relentless, but at least I wouldn't have to worry about them fighting/hurting each other like with an adult cat and the kitten couldn't reach Calliope on any of her daily perches. I could keep them separate most of the time. I work from home and could play with the kitten quite a bit to keep him occupied.
I'd love to get some feedback! We had a disastrous time trying to introduce a new cat to the household with our former cat. We had some very bad matches (cats who aggressively attacked her) before getting Calliope, and even THAT was a struggle. Three months in, former cat still despised/hissed at Calliope, but at least they weren't fighting. But it was months of baby gates and rotating rooms and litter boxes and living room time, and it was just awful. I want to minimize a disruptive situation and have a smooth transition.
Thanks!