My daughter was 29 today - I can't believe it but there you go. She phoned tonight to thank me for her present, but told me that her boyfriend's mother had sent her some lycra control underwear, WITH LEGS! Now my daughter in her teens was frankly tubby, but she works out every day and and is a UK size 10, not big by any standards. She is really proud of how she has kept her weight right down for several years now, though she loves to cook and eat. She was perplexed and a little offended and does not know how to reply. She said her boyfriend was a bit non-plussed too. What would you do?