Belle and Delilah are littermates and best friends who have never been apart. They generally get along very well, groom each other, and play together.
However, all this changes when Delilah gets a wif of Francis. Francis is our porch kitty...long story, but I guess he technically lives next door...I'm hoping now that it's getting cooler, he'll be going inside more and spend less time on our porch.
Today I came home and Francis came running out of the stairway that goes to our apartment door. Someone had left the front door (I live in an apartment in the upper level of a house) to the house open and Francis let himslef in....it's not the first time. So, I'm not sure how long he was upstairs (on the outside of our apartment door), but Delilah was none to happy about it when I came home. This has happened before but she seemed to be getting a bit better. Usually Belle just seems confused, but tonight she is growling and hissing back at Delilah.
I'm just wondering what I should do when this happens? Should I just leave them alone? Should I put them in separate areas so they can calm down a bit in a "safe" place? Should I do something to try to get them to like each other again? She usually gets over it fairly quickly (although she seems particularly peeved this evening), but I find myself not knowing how to handle them when they are in their little "tiffs."
By the way, as for Francis, I love him, but he needs to stop letting himself in (I'd take him in, but clearly my cats are not very welcoming, and the people next door do let him in...he just seems to prefer it here, unfortunately). I'm working on that to avoid the situation altogether.
However, all this changes when Delilah gets a wif of Francis. Francis is our porch kitty...long story, but I guess he technically lives next door...I'm hoping now that it's getting cooler, he'll be going inside more and spend less time on our porch.
Today I came home and Francis came running out of the stairway that goes to our apartment door. Someone had left the front door (I live in an apartment in the upper level of a house) to the house open and Francis let himslef in....it's not the first time. So, I'm not sure how long he was upstairs (on the outside of our apartment door), but Delilah was none to happy about it when I came home. This has happened before but she seemed to be getting a bit better. Usually Belle just seems confused, but tonight she is growling and hissing back at Delilah.
I'm just wondering what I should do when this happens? Should I just leave them alone? Should I put them in separate areas so they can calm down a bit in a "safe" place? Should I do something to try to get them to like each other again? She usually gets over it fairly quickly (although she seems particularly peeved this evening), but I find myself not knowing how to handle them when they are in their little "tiffs."
By the way, as for Francis, I love him, but he needs to stop letting himself in (I'd take him in, but clearly my cats are not very welcoming, and the people next door do let him in...he just seems to prefer it here, unfortunately). I'm working on that to avoid the situation altogether.