If you pray, please keep my friend in mind. She had to put down her 11 year old cat today, because of his mental problems. Her mother is not supporting her, even though her vet told her that,yes, it was time, and that she had done more for him and put up with more than the majority of people would have, and she certainly did. But it came down to everybody's quality of life, the people, the cat, and her other cat who was suffering extreme anxiety because of him. He was to the point that meds wouldn't help, and he was becoming a danger to himself and others. They were worried that if her older female died first, he would become a danger to her small children, as he already considers them intruders. She knows she did the right thing for everyone, including him, but it is still so hard. She loved him a lot, and will miss the times when he was his normal, sweet self. Thanks for listening; my heart breaks for her today.