Hi cat people,
So I'm having an issue. My boyfriend of eight months confessed to me that my Aslan is getting to be too much for him. Bf claims Aslan constantly wakes him up at 4am for food/playtime (he doesn't do this to me), that Aslan mauls him (this is true, he plays very rough sometimes and has sharp claws that I struggle to keep trimmed) and that Aslan is just generally sucking up all the air in the room.
He IS a very high energy cat, but I adore him, and there's no question of me giving him to my parents (as bf suggested one night after finding holes in his clothes).
Bf has been claiming that Aslan needs more space than my studio apartment. But Aslan has 2 cat trees, one by my bed and one near the window, and many, many toys. I do give him as much playtime as I can. He likes to run around, and jump on everything, and I am doubtful more space would make much of a difference in his energy levels.
Aslan also chews on absolutely EVERYTHING, including my blinds, cabinet knobs, edges of anything etc so any good chew toys recommendations would be much appreciated. I have tried a few dental chew toys and while he likes to play fetch with them, he doesn't really chew them.
I have also been considering getting him a large stuffed animal to wrestle with instead of my legs/feet/everything.
There is NO QUESTION of me choosing my boyfriend over my cat. But I'd like to keep them both so any advice would be appreciated.
So I'm having an issue. My boyfriend of eight months confessed to me that my Aslan is getting to be too much for him. Bf claims Aslan constantly wakes him up at 4am for food/playtime (he doesn't do this to me), that Aslan mauls him (this is true, he plays very rough sometimes and has sharp claws that I struggle to keep trimmed) and that Aslan is just generally sucking up all the air in the room.
He IS a very high energy cat, but I adore him, and there's no question of me giving him to my parents (as bf suggested one night after finding holes in his clothes).
Bf has been claiming that Aslan needs more space than my studio apartment. But Aslan has 2 cat trees, one by my bed and one near the window, and many, many toys. I do give him as much playtime as I can. He likes to run around, and jump on everything, and I am doubtful more space would make much of a difference in his energy levels.
Aslan also chews on absolutely EVERYTHING, including my blinds, cabinet knobs, edges of anything etc so any good chew toys recommendations would be much appreciated. I have tried a few dental chew toys and while he likes to play fetch with them, he doesn't really chew them.
I have also been considering getting him a large stuffed animal to wrestle with instead of my legs/feet/everything.
There is NO QUESTION of me choosing my boyfriend over my cat. But I'd like to keep them both so any advice would be appreciated.