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My 13 week kitten, Reiko, has always tried to seek our attention, being our only cat and I've always played by the cat rule book on dealing with this sort of behaviour but it's been becoming worse.
Usually she would attack things she knows she's not allowed to (and look right at me to see if it's gotten my attention each time she does it) - scratching the bed, attacking books, bags, etc. So I've been advised to ignore her when she does these things to not give her the attention she's looking for while being naughty. I'll wait till she's done being naughty and sitting somewhere quietly before I go and give her attention. It has helped most of the time but of course being a kitten she would repeat the same mistakes a week later which is fine, I will repeat what I always do and hopefully she's learning from it.
Now she has begun to meow really loudly at the walls (where it echoes the most) for attention. And it's the mournful and loud sort. I know it's for attention cos I'm always either on my phone or working when she does this. I would wait for her to stop and be quiet before I get a wand toy and play with her.
But of course she repeats this several times during the day and I cannot afford to take the wand out 10 times when I'm working on my computer (or during a conference call with a client). Not to mention her constant meowing is disrupting calls and my focus. She gets good, long play times in the morning and evening usually so I don't know why now she's being so greedy for attention.
Sometimes I get the sense she wants to be picked up but when I do, she bites me. If I pet her she would have her ears all backwards and run away as though wanting me to chase her. If I ignore her, she begins her mournful meowing again.
She just got her second vaccination shot and the vet cleared her health last week. Her stools are fine and nothing out of the ordinary. No change in diet or portions whatsoever. No change in the household or routine. And she has many different toys out for her on rotation.
What can I do? I want her to be happy and not meow mournfully. I also would prefer if she does not do that because then I would have to work in a different area away from her which is bound to make her sadder.
P/S: Any advice welcome, but not the 'get a second kitten' - we honestly do not have the space for a second litter box or enough territory for two.
Usually she would attack things she knows she's not allowed to (and look right at me to see if it's gotten my attention each time she does it) - scratching the bed, attacking books, bags, etc. So I've been advised to ignore her when she does these things to not give her the attention she's looking for while being naughty. I'll wait till she's done being naughty and sitting somewhere quietly before I go and give her attention. It has helped most of the time but of course being a kitten she would repeat the same mistakes a week later which is fine, I will repeat what I always do and hopefully she's learning from it.
Now she has begun to meow really loudly at the walls (where it echoes the most) for attention. And it's the mournful and loud sort. I know it's for attention cos I'm always either on my phone or working when she does this. I would wait for her to stop and be quiet before I get a wand toy and play with her.
But of course she repeats this several times during the day and I cannot afford to take the wand out 10 times when I'm working on my computer (or during a conference call with a client). Not to mention her constant meowing is disrupting calls and my focus. She gets good, long play times in the morning and evening usually so I don't know why now she's being so greedy for attention.
Sometimes I get the sense she wants to be picked up but when I do, she bites me. If I pet her she would have her ears all backwards and run away as though wanting me to chase her. If I ignore her, she begins her mournful meowing again.
She just got her second vaccination shot and the vet cleared her health last week. Her stools are fine and nothing out of the ordinary. No change in diet or portions whatsoever. No change in the household or routine. And she has many different toys out for her on rotation.
What can I do? I want her to be happy and not meow mournfully. I also would prefer if she does not do that because then I would have to work in a different area away from her which is bound to make her sadder.
P/S: Any advice welcome, but not the 'get a second kitten' - we honestly do not have the space for a second litter box or enough territory for two.
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